hedders
@hedders@fedia.io
Rarely entirely serious. Fond of otters and dogs, scarily obsessive about music and old videogames. He/him.
- Comment on What are the fun ways to learn and master the file management system in Linux ? 3 days ago:
You can think of it as basically "programs", "more programs", "stuff", "gubbins", "misc" and "other".
- Comment on Would you want to be Michael Jackson-level famous? Why or why not? 1 week ago:
Jesus H Christ, no. Rich? Sure. It would make a lot of things easier and less stressful. Famous? Not on your life. Can't imagine anything worse. And Michael Jackson levels of fame? Sounds like hell. No wonder he was such a monumental fuck-up.
- Comment on My brother wants to for Father's Day is volunteer at the local women's shelter. Not really a father but has two dogs. But is afraid to even ask because he is male. How does he go about this? 2 weeks ago:
This may be well-intentioned (although I am sceptical). Regardless, it's a bad idea, it comes off as deeply sinister, and smacks really strongly of "not all men". He should find something else to do.
- Comment on When in time did America gave up trying to be great? Gave up as the example for the world? And now we are on our backs and refuse to get up like Bender off Futurama or a turtle? 5 weeks ago:
I feel like OP is of the cusp of a realisation: "Hang on. Are we the baddies?"
- Comment on Has there ever been a country who did not have an enemy or pick a fight? And was pretty much like all of you do you we will do us. kind of like isalationism but charitable when it counted? 5 weeks ago:
Back in the day, Switzerland was one of Europe's main sources of armies-for-hire. We see the echoes of that today in the Swiss Guard in Vatican City, for instance.
- Comment on What was the stupidest form of US defaultism you've encountered in real life whilst they're abroad? 1 month ago:
It's not just Americans who do this by any means, and nor are they the worst offenders! Trust me on this, I'm British - the most wilfully parochial nation on earth.
You'll always get the odd jerk, but mostly this stuff tends to come from a lack of travel experience more than anything else. Unless you've travelled, you may not even realise what assumptions you're making about how day-to-day life works. And, well, a lot of Americans haven't travelled much outside of the USA. (That's not a criticism by the way - the USA is absolutely enormous and incredibly diverse, and you could spend a lifetime exploring it and not see it all.)
All that said, back in the days before dual voltage power supplies were common I did used to find it amusing watching Americans in Europe blithely plugging their electrical goods into the 220V mains and wondering why they blew up.
- Comment on I am against rape or rapists or any such type of action or person. But my mom who has a daughter. Keeps questioning why these women wait so long before coming out with it? 1 month ago:
Look at what happens to the women who do come forward. Is it really any wonder they're so reticent?
- Comment on What's the best way to tell a kid that their dog died? 1 month ago:
You tell them, gently, directly and as a matter of fact. Then you pick up the pieces.
- Comment on Is there any way I can study Marxist theory in a way that wouldn't seem too boring or dry? 1 month ago:
Read "The Ragged-Trousered Philanthropists" by Robert Tressell. Or, if reading a book is too difficult, there's a graphic novel version I think.
- Comment on Or jorkin' 5 months ago:
That's vile. I'm so sorry.