Comment on i wonder what goes through men's minds in this situation

• PhoenixDog@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  See, there’s a difference between “Yeah I’d rather keep my clothes on” rather than telling other people “You should keep your clothes on in your own house with friends who are also comfortable being naked”.

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  • wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    This isn’t at her own house though. Her fling’s friends are around, so chances are it’s at her fling’s house.

    I mean what if I as a man were to decide to hang out naked at “a fling’s” house when her friends are over and I didn’t ask any of them if they’d be comfortable with me taking my clothes off? Suddenly the situation seems different, right?

    This is just the same old casual minimization of men’s concerns when their boundaries or consent is being violated, because “You’re a man so you should just shut up and enjoy this. Consider yourself lucky to bask in the presence of my feminine nakedness.”

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    • edible_funk@lemmy.world ⁨10⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Not really, I’ve been in that situation. Her buddy said nice dick, people laughed, that was that. When I got across the room to where my clothes were I got dressed. You might just be a prude.

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      • wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz ⁨10⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        Okay, I’ll just start hanging out naked around people who didn’t agree to see my junk, and if anyone feels uncomfortable I’ll call them a prude. We’ll see how that goes.

        Your anecdote about a few people who happened to be pro-nudity doesn’t change that. The same situation could’ve landed you in jail and registered as a sex offender if your audience happened to be different.

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  • horn_e4_beaver@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    So in the same vain you think it would be acceptable for the protagonist of this meme to start cutting themselves as an act of self-harm infront of other people? No matter if it made them uncomfortable?

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    • mpramann@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨12⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      That is an insane comparison. It does not help your argument one bit.

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      • horn_e4_beaver@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨9⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        It’s all about context. Deliberately exposing yourself without consent to someone could cause similar harm.

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    • PhoenixDog@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      Imagine trying to equate comfortable nudity and accepting one’s body to “YEAH BUT WHAT IF THEY STARTED CUTTING THEMSELVES NOW WHAT!?”

      What a weird reach. Just admit you hyper sexualize nudity and get it over with.

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      • horn_e4_beaver@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

        Imagine trying to tell everyone else that your culture and belief system is right and others are wrong.

        Quite imperialist.

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