Comment on i wonder what goes through men's minds in this situation

• Paddzr@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  Especially since I’d wager most of it IS sexual and their fantasy. No one just casually decides it doesn’t bother them and then actively goes out of social norms unless they really want to prove a point or it’s their kink… ergo, they very much do care.

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  • wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    And the wrong glance or stray word and they might fly off the handle accusing you of sexual violence when it was their choice to be casually naked into front of you in the first place.

    Looking isn’t violence, of course, but that won’t stop them from accusing you of victim blaming with a sarcastic “wHaT wAs ShE wEaRiNg?”

    I’d be uncomfortable in the same way I’d be uncomfortable if someone were to force me to play russian roulette.

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  • edible_funk@lemmy.world ⁨12⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Buddy like half the world bathes together normally. Imagine being so porn brained that you can’t conceive of casual non sexual nudity.

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    • Paddzr@lemmy.world ⁨7⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Yet these people aren’t in ‘that’ half of the world nor are they coming from it, are they?

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      • edible_funk@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        That doesn’t really respond to my point. If casual nudity is uncomfortable to you, that’s a you problem. If you think nudity is inappropriate by virtue of being nudity you’re a fuckin prude and can quite frankly shove off.

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• edible_funk@lemmy.world ⁨12⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  You likely wouldn’t be hanging out in groups where casual nudity is a thing then huh?

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  • UntimedDiffusion@piefed.zip ⁨7⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    No, I don’t, which is why I would be uncomfortable if I was hanging out at my friend’s house and his “fling” was just chilling out naked. Especially if she was enjoying making me and anyone else around uncomfortable

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    • edible_funk@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Y’all have dick for media literacy. Nowhere does the meme imply that op was getting a kick out of making everyone uncomfortable. If anything the meme implies she was oblivious to it, not intentionally doing it to get a reaction. Y’all are so out of touch you genuinely can’t imagine someone just preferring to be naked in a safe comfortable space. No wonder none of y’all are having kids, you’re afraid of fuckin nudity.

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    • edible_funk@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Jesus context is fuckin difficult with this lot. Lemme break this down for you here; if op is naked around fling and fling’s friend, fling is the kind of person who clearly doesn’t have issues with casual nudity, therefore would not likely freely have friends over if those friends weren’t ok with casual nudity. Like, it’s fuckin implicit by virtue of having tits out. Apparently none of you have ever seen public nudity. It’s not a big deal. Nobody cares except for perverts and porn-brained internet shut ins.

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      • UntimedDiffusion@piefed.zip ⁨5⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        What does OP’s nudity have anything to do with fling’s or fling’s friend’s beliefs?

        it’s fuckin implicit by virtue of having tits out

        So, just to be clear, by your logic, if I was at a hangout with, say, my friends and their girlfriends (all of whom I can tell you would be uncomfortable with nudity), and I just whipped my dick out and started chilling naked, it would actually be chill because

        it’s fuckin implicit by virtue of having tits dick out

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