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• dudinax@programming.dev ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  If we don’t make fun of him for litterally everything he does he’ll never realize he has license to do what he wants

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  • wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Doesn’t that prove the point though?

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• wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Would you have the same reaction to a woman posting “but what about women?” In a post talking about men?

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  • velma@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Yes. It’s literally the waffles/pancakes meme.

    Two women talking do not have to talk about men.

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    • wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Okay well it happens all the time. Like men talking about something that effects them as men and someone goes “why do you hate women?!?”

      I agree that that’s pancakes and waffles, but only calling it out when it’s men commenting on a post about women is a double-standard. Very likely the men who pointed that out on this post were doing so as a result of and/or to call out that double-standard.

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      • velma@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        Can you show me an example of this happening in this community?

        Because we have men actually asking “what about men?” in this thread right here. It’s not theoretical, it actually happened.

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    • Soulg@ani.social ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Two women talking to not have to talk about men, that’s correct.

      This is not even remotely that meme.

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      • velma@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        It’s two women talking to each other.

        Saying girls get made fun of for everything does not say that boys never get made fun of.

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