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• wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz ⁨5⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  So it’s trauma-dumping when a man does it, but when a woman does it it’s just “a part of a conversation” or “women talking about their experiences”?

  I think that double-standard is precisely what this conversation is about.

  We talk about how it’s an issue that men aren’t allowed to talk about their problems or their feelings, but that’s clearly just an abstract idea to some people because when men actually do try to talk about those things, it’s always the same reaction.

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  • webghost0101@sopuli.xyz ⁨2⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Not at all…

    It just appears rather obvious from that text that Asetru their anger against op came from a very specific personal injustice done to them. Channeling it in such way where you direct anger at a demographic is toxic, regardless of gender.

    I do disagree a lot with how op responded, they where over reacting in a similar way, i didn’t call them out because the longer this ordeal went on the more people seemed to prove that they have a real point to be frustrated about it.

    You did prove the same thing. My comment isn’t gender specific, i don’t know what Astetru identifies as (thats part why i put the sir is in quotes) any gender can argue in favour of any gender. That is not that unusual.

    And yet you perceived it as directed at one gender and came in with a “but what about the other gender”

    I really didn’t want to believe that this “always happens” but the evidence here says it either is or this is targeted trolling against op.

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• Donkter@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  Yes, but why are we making fun of a guy for doing what he loves (posting “but what about men?” In a post talking about women)?

  (This is a joke btw.)

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  • wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz ⁨5⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Would you have the same reaction to a woman posting “but what about women?” In a post talking about men?

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    • velma@sh.itjust.works ⁨5⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Yes. It’s literally the waffles/pancakes meme.

      Two women talking do not have to talk about men.

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      • Soulg@ani.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨hour⁩ ago

        Two women talking to not have to talk about men, that’s correct.

        This is not even remotely that meme.

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      • wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz ⁨5⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        Okay well it happens all the time. Like men talking about something that effects them as men and someone goes “why do you hate women?!?”

        I agree that that’s pancakes and waffles, but only calling it out when it’s men commenting on a post about women is a double-standard. Very likely the men who pointed that out on this post were doing so as a result of and/or to call out that double-standard.

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  • dudinax@programming.dev ⁨23⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    If we don’t make fun of him for litterally everything he does he’ll never realize he has license to do what he wants

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    • wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz ⁨5⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Doesn’t that prove the point though?

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