Comment on Anon's dad tries to bond
lvxferre@mander.xyz 2 weeks agoI am not deciding shit for anyone. I’m concluding your kid is most likely MtF, based on the info you provided — “in my simple brain he has a dick he’s a boy” + usage of the word “trans”.
And, even in the chance my conclusion is incorrect (the kid is actually genderfluid, or non-binary, et cetera), my point still stands, even if you pretend it doesn’t dammit. You highlighted you use “he/him” because the kid has a dick, regardless of the kid’s identity, that’s an arsehole move, doubly so coming from a parent. The right approach would be to use the ones the kid chose.
You’re the one assuming shit here
Not really.
whoisearth@lemmy.ca 2 weeks ago
He’s actually stated he’s more asexual than anything but no, your point doesn’t stand if anything you’re highlighting ignorance from the other side.
That said you’re not looking to discuss you’re looking to scream from your soapbox and that I have neither the time nor the give a shit to hear it.
mugthol@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 weeks ago
Maybe I’m misunderstanding something but being asexual doesn’t have anything to do with being trans. You can have a different gender than the one you were assigned at birth and not be sexually attracted to other people. Being trans doesn’t influence the people you are attracted to