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lvxferre@mander.xyz 17 hours ago…I’ll be honest.
You’re saying you’ll defend whatever she decides to be, but I don’t think you accept it yourself; that’s why you’re still treating your daughter as if she was a boy. It’s perfectly possible this actually hurts her, but she doesn’t complain because it’s complicated to complain about things towards your parents, specially before adulthood.
whoisearth@lemmy.ca 6 hours ago
I’m laughing that you’re making the decision that they want to be identified as a girl. The point you’re making is moot at this point but how you’re attempting to make it is ignorant AF.
You’re the one assuming shit here far more than I am and in fairness it’s because you know jack shit about me and my kid.
Anyways, I find that funny.
lvxferre@mander.xyz 4 hours ago
I am not deciding shit for anyone. I’m concluding your kid is most likely MtF, based on the info you provided — “in my simple brain he has a dick he’s a boy” + usage of the word “trans”.
And, even in the chance my conclusion is incorrect (the kid is actually genderfluid, or non-binary, et cetera), my point still stands, even if you pretend it doesn’t dammit. You highlighted you use “he/him” because the kid has a dick, regardless of the kid’s identity, that’s an arsehole move, doubly so coming from a parent. The right approach would be to use the ones the kid chose.
Not really.
whoisearth@lemmy.ca 2 hours ago
He’s actually stated he’s more asexual than anything but no, your point doesn’t stand if anything you’re highlighting ignorance from the other side.
That said you’re not looking to discuss you’re looking to scream from your soapbox and that I have neither the time nor the give a shit to hear it.