Comment on why is it never the 'close friend' who gets shit on?
electric_nan@lemmy.ml 2 weeks agoI don’t understand how you consider one action a betrayal of trust and not the other. Is your friendship also not over the instant your friend decides to sleep with your partner? I guess you have different kinds of friendships than I do.
lightnsfw@reddthat.com 2 weeks ago
None of my friends would try and initiate something like that. However if my friend tries to fuck my SO and my SO rejects them then I’m going to have a problem with my friend harassing my SO. If my SO goes along with it and cheats on me then my friend has revealed their my SO’s colors and that relationship wasn’t worth shit in the first place, they’ve done me a favor. No sense in also tanking a friendship over it.
electric_nan@lemmy.ml 2 weeks ago
Right on, but I just can’t relate.
lightnsfw@reddthat.com 2 weeks ago
Yeah, this is just my own opinion I don’t expect everyone to agree. Everyone approaches relationships in their own way. Also want to say that just because I feel this way about it doesn’t mean I would ever be the friend being cheated with. Cheaters disgust me so I’d be on the phone immediately telling them about how they propositioned me. So maybe that makes me some kind of hypocrite.