I wine when anyone wears it men or women. Make up just sucks and freaks me out on a fundamental level. Shit scares the actual fuck out of me.
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EggInDisguise@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 months agoI’m sorry, that sounds awfully close to whining about women wearing makeup.
Holytimes@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
minorkeys@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
God forbid someone have an opinion on makeup that isn’t positive! Stone them!
atomicorange@lemmy.world 2 months ago
“I prefer it when you don’t brush your teeth”. So? Keep it to yourself weirdo, I’m not doing it for you.
Holytimes@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
To a random person that makes sense … But like this is something partners typically express.
Have you just never been in a healthy relationship where you can talk to your SO about their appearance and your preferences honestly?
Being sexy for your partner requires you to actually understand their prefences and fetishes. So you can make appeals to them.
There’s nothing wrong and if anything it’s highly unhealthy for the relationship to be scared to express your physical preferences. Its even worse if you are unable to accept the information openly.
It sounds like you might just either have had horridly unhealthy experiences with men. Or are possibly just a narcissist. Depending on the context your speaking about.
Seriously, a healthy relationship is foundationally built on understanding and part of that is knowing your partners perfences. It goes both ways.
atomicorange@lemmy.world 2 months ago
You got me being a narcissist from just that?
You wouldn’t find that comment really weird from anyone you’re not sexually involved with? Yeah obviously it’s different when it’s a partner, but that’s not what we’re talking about. Unsolicited advice on how I groom myself is creepy to me. I think you’d find it creepy too, which is why I tried to give a more relatable example. Evidently that makes me a narcissist, jesus. Can’t talk about anything.
minorkeys@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
A salient and compassionate perspective.
minorkeys@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
Nobody is talking to you, though, or any specific woman, just women in general. That you equate 'I prefer women who shave their legs." with “Shave your legs, !” shows so kind of thinking, for sure.
atomicorange@lemmy.world 2 months ago
People do talk to individual specific women this way. That’s what we’re talking about.
It’s not that you’re misunderstanding or being uncharitable or there’s a miscommunication, it’s because I’m not thinking, I’m just a dumb woman only feelings no thoughts head empty. Thanks for the valuable discussion, love trying to give perspective and being met with condescension.