Have they even met him? Even if it happens that a friend doesnât click with a partner, it shouldnât matter. This happens in lots of friendship groups and couples. You are happy that your friend is happy. Itâs their partner not yours.
Comment on Discussion Thread đ Sunday 17 May 2026
LowExperience2368@aussie.zone â¨2⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
Had some âfriendsâ make disparaging comments about me being in a relationship, disguised as âthem looking out for meâ, even after I told them to stop. I know not to take it personally, but I am disgusted. I have barely told them anything about my relationship, so telling someone that theyâll âseeâ how delusional they are in a few months, that they have a shit track record in dating, and generalising about men is uncalled for.
SituationCake@aussie.zone â¨2⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
LowExperience2368@aussie.zone â¨2⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
No they havenât! Theyâre just making baseless assumptions and making an ass out of them and me.
Bottom_racer@aussie.zone â¨2⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
Probs jealousy.
True friends would be happy for you. if they havenât met the dude (several times) they can STFU.
We here are happy for you :)
LowExperience2368@aussie.zone â¨2⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
Thank you :)
I suspect jealousy too. They havenât even met the guy!
SpinMeAround@aussie.zone â¨2⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
Glad you saw the comments for what they are!!
Seagoon_@aussie.zone â¨2⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
oh yeah, they are jealous
and yes, true friends are happy just like we are happy for you.
Be happy. đ
Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone â¨2⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
Seagoon_@aussie.zone â¨2⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
I have found that another reason jealous haters will say disparaging things to happy people is so they can âownâ the happiness. They canât be happy or make people happy but they can destroy happiness and thus they had power and ownership over the happiness.
SituationCake@aussie.zone â¨2⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
This is very insightful.
Seagoon_@aussie.zone â¨2⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
Thanks. Sadly itâs from experience.
Itâs why some people will always create drama or be mean on Christmas, holidays or birthdays. They want to destroy the happiness of the day.
Trump is a very good example of that.
LowExperience2368@aussie.zone â¨2⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
Thanks mate.
Gibson the Great