Have they even met him? Even if it happens that a friend doesn’t click with a partner, it shouldn’t matter. This happens in lots of friendship groups and couples. You are happy that your friend is happy. It’s their partner not yours.
Comment on Discussion Thread 🐝 Sunday 17 May 2026
LowExperience2368@aussie.zone 1 month ago
Had some “friends” make disparaging comments about me being in a relationship, disguised as “them looking out for me”, even after I told them to stop. I know not to take it personally, but I am disgusted. I have barely told them anything about my relationship, so telling someone that they’ll “see” how delusional they are in a few months, that they have a shit track record in dating, and generalising about men is uncalled for.
SituationCake@aussie.zone 1 month ago
Bottom_racer@aussie.zone 1 month ago
Probs jealousy.
True friends would be happy for you. if they haven’t met the dude (several times) they can STFU.
We here are happy for you :)
LowExperience2368@aussie.zone 1 month ago
Thank you :)
I suspect jealousy too. They haven’t even met the guy!
SpinMeAround@aussie.zone 1 month ago
Glad you saw the comments for what they are!!
Seagoon_@aussie.zone 1 month ago
oh yeah, they are jealous
and yes, true friends are happy just like we are happy for you.
Be happy. 🙂
Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone 1 month ago
Seagoon_@aussie.zone 1 month ago
I have found that another reason jealous haters will say disparaging things to happy people is so they can “own” the happiness. They can’t be happy or make people happy but they can destroy happiness and thus they had power and ownership over the happiness.
SituationCake@aussie.zone 1 month ago
This is very insightful.
Seagoon_@aussie.zone 1 month ago
Thanks. Sadly it’s from experience.
It’s why some people will always create drama or be mean on Christmas, holidays or birthdays. They want to destroy the happiness of the day.
Trump is a very good example of that.