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backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 3 days agoNo. The implication that people who don’t want kids somehow don’t end up in situations where kids are produced is ludicrous. People don’t fuck just to make babies, but since that is a possibility, avoiding that outcome is a responsibility. Not everyone who doesn’t want kids automatically becomes a bad parent when they do occur, and not everyone who intentionally creates kids is a good parent.
gurty@lemmy.world 3 days ago
No, people who call kids ‘disease vectors’ shouldn’t have kids, silly billy.
RecursiveParadox@piefed.social 1 day ago
Gotta back him up on this point, and I think every parent will agree - from the time they are toddlers until late in high school you WILL catch every disease all the other kids at school had that week. Among most parents it’s a running joke.
Mine are grown now but still living at home and I STILL catch shit from them going around their unis.
gurty@lemmy.world 1 day ago
It is true - two colds in 3 months here. It is what happens when you get 30 kids into a confined space, immediate spread.
backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 3 days ago
Your original reply implied that people who hold such a belief somehow end up not making babies because of that belief. I continue to suggest the onus is on people with that belief to prevent them while knowing that it’s quite likely they’re going to fuck, and frankly, your opinion about their reproductive rights and bodily autonomy is irrelevant. I mean, what’s your proposal, comb people’s post histories for comments like “disease vectors” and take their kids away when condoms fail or a pill is missed, or do we just sterilize/castrate them beforehand?
gurty@lemmy.world 3 days ago
I said shouldn’t , not don’t. I think you need to work on your comprehension. I don’t know why this has set you off so much, but I sincerely hope you get the help you need.
backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 3 days ago
Explain how people not wanting kids “resolves itself”. Do you think they don’t have sex?
W98BSoD@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 days ago
$20 days they have at least one kid they didn’t want to / weren’t planning on having.