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Knowing a couple different polycules but not being in that community myself, I now think of these things much differently and sometimes completely miss the point they are trying to make and just think it’s a happy thought they are sharing instead of trying justv celebrating shitty behavior.

And let me tell you how many wonderfully bewildered looks I get when it’s a person who is saying it in front of me and my reaction is completely different then they are expecting

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Gonzako@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
I’m having trouble understanding this comment. Mind elaborating?

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- shynoise@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
  Some people are into it
  
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- EmpathicVagrant@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
  Processing it through another filter, they see the idea more as an enjoyable consenting event rather than something done behind the back of an unaware partner.
  
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- JackbyDev@programming.dev ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
  They’re saying they interpret the post as a consensual act between three people instead of a joke about cheating.
  
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- Jarix@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
  I can but I’ll need some help. Where did we go off the rails, or how if that’s easier to answer
  
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