Comment on Hottest thing ever

gaiety@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

• Jarix@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Knowing a couple different polycules but not being in that community myself, I now think of these things much differently and sometimes completely miss the point they are trying to make and just think it’s a happy thought they are sharing instead of trying justv celebrating shitty behavior.

  And let me tell you how many wonderfully bewildered looks I get when it’s a person who is saying it in front of me and my reaction is completely different then they are expecting

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  • Gonzako@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    I’m having trouble understanding this comment. Mind elaborating?

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    • shynoise@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      Some people are into it

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    • EmpathicVagrant@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      Processing it through another filter, they see the idea more as an enjoyable consenting event rather than something done behind the back of an unaware partner.

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    • JackbyDev@programming.dev ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      They’re saying they interpret the post as a consensual act between three people instead of a joke about cheating.

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    • Jarix@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      I can but I’ll need some help. Where did we go off the rails, or how if that’s easier to answer

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• Mac@mander.xyz ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  take a shower i guess

  You misunderstand,

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