I’ve done this too, luckily she said “no worries I’ve actually wanted to try that”
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666dollarfootlong@lemmy.world 4 days ago
One time i peed in their mouth because the head was so overstimulating i lost all control, i genuinely had no idea if i was gonna nut or pee
RabbitMix@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 days ago
LoafedBurrito@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 days ago
Uhhh, you should probably pee before any fun stuff in the future. Just go to the bathroom before hand.
666dollarfootlong@lemmy.world 3 days ago
I never said either of us found it disgusting 😏 also apparently penis-havers can squirt, especially from post-orgasm torture. Also would you say that to someone who squirted of of their vagina?
fracture@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 hours ago
really not a fan of the shaming happening in the other comments for this! sometimes you have fluids come out that you didn’t mean to, it’s not something ANY gender should be shamed for!
also the amount of people commenting on what seems like it was a one-off occasion / situation is crazy
velma@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 days ago
If I actively pissed while getting head, yes, I would start to pee before sex.
Squirting, while comprised of some pee, is not the same as pissing.
fracture@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 hours ago
calling squirting “comprised of some pee” is a little disingenuous, when the bladder can hold 200-400ml of liquid and the female prostate (aka skene’s gland) can hold, generously, 2-4ml (you can read about it in depth in this recent study, which is quite a good read! researchgate.net/…/359790472_Female_ejaculation_a…) even if you’re not precise about how many mls of fluid are expelled during a typical squirt, one would be hard pressed to conclusively state that less than the majority of fluid in a squirt didn’t originate from the bladder. the paper talks about the question of whether or not it’s precisely urine, but the tl;dr is basically that it’s not not urine (more dilute and/or slightly different compositions of urea, creatinine, and uric acid)
speaking from personal experience, at least… as much as i wish it weren’t the case, it’s piss :')
but THAT’S FINE. we don’t need to be in the business of shaming folks for unintentional (or intentional!) emissions of piss during sex! and drawing the line at “squirting (in people with vulvas) is fine because it’s not all piss” is kind of silly because it’s not necessarily going to just be piss from someone with a penis either, and there are for sure women/people with vulvas out there for whom it is just piss, and they’re catching strays here. this is not the pro-feminist stance you think it is
as long as it’s as consensual as you can make it (e.g. if you know for sure it’ll happen ahead of time, inform your partner(s); if you didn’t expect it or think it would happen, that’s the price of admission! things happen), we have no business judging someone for how their body behaves during sex
(directing this to you, but also the other comment on this post, but there’s a lot of information about squirting i wanted to write out, as well. it’s been a subject of my fascination for a few years, and some of the newer research is really interesting to read)
icelimit@lemmy.ml 3 days ago
It’s all pee.
PhenomenalPancake@lemmy.world 3 days ago
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Adulated_Aspersion@lemmy.world 3 days ago
Before hand. Before head. Before anything, really.