You don’t have to know how terrible a person has to be for an unbiased child protective services agent to say that it’s probably a good thing if she gets evicted because then it’ll be easier to prove in court that she can’t even take care of herself.
She gets a job, goes there for a month, decides to go on sick leave for 4 months, asks me to buy her a car so she can dump her abusive boyfriend she only got together with because he drove a Mercedes (not even a nice one like my old one before she trashed it, but it’s the badge that matters), I refuse, then 2 days later she tells me I’m not seeing my child again (was supposed to be with her for the weekend, ended up being a month of no contact). Then a month later she tells me her boyfriend’s been yelling at our 1.5 year old the entire time and even beat her (my ex). So I get my kid back and email her saying that it’s not okay to let our child live in such an environment and I’m not letting it happen anymore. She replies “just because you saw a police car doesn’t mean that anything happened, it could’ve been for our neighbours”, not knowing I recorded her detailing how her boyfriend abuses our child. I didn’t even mention the police car in my email. She was the one that called them on her boyfriend.
We then later agree she gets to see the kid every other weekend when her older kid is also visiting. First time, she steals the car chair that I let her use and sells it. Second time she asks me to pack more stuff and I say I simply can’t because she keeps selling her children’s shit. She tells me that in retaliation, she’s going to keep the kid and tell CPS that she doesn’t trust me. Two more weeks of me not seeing my child at all and then 3 months of her complaining to everyone she can’t afford food and diapers while refusing to give up and let the child live with me.
She doesn’t see other people as human beings. They’re tools for her to get enjoyment and her needs met. Including her children. And thanks to me, her landlord, a really nice person who rents out their old apartment after moving rather than hoarding property, was only scammed out of 2 months rent rather than multiple. Because even if they sue, the debt will just expire in 10 years and my ex doesn’t work enough to have it garnished out of her wages. She works for a few months and then finds a boyfriend so she can get pregnant or goes on sick leave. Child #1 was born out of a similar story as I later found out. Her friend told me she was trying to get pregnant again so she could go on maternal leave and guilt trip her boyfriend into giving her a bigger allowance, which explains why she kept trying to have (unprotected of course) sex with me. Boyfriend is thought to be infertile.
philipsdirk@discuss.tchncs.de 1 day ago
From taking the story at face value, yes I personally think this is ok. It’s not overly petty or revengeful to warn others about what a person is likely to do based on past experience. Otherwise she will swindle and abuse the next person.