You know… it’s a courtesy. I do mean it - for what it is. Thanks for handing me my change. I’m not going to fire up my acting chops to “sell it” like they did something extraordinary if they did not.
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rumba@lemmy.zip 3 days agoBut with GenZ cashiers, I say thank you, and then realize they had stopped paying any attention to my presence
Generally, what works for me is to say it like you mean it. Say it like they just walked across the store to pick up a can that rolled off your cart. throw a little ‘unexpected’ in there, light smile, and then tell them to have a good day. If you don’t sell it, they’re going to assume you’re going through the motions just to feed the machine. They’ll blip back to you for a second from the next mundane task, get a smirk or a little grin, and say you’re welcome. Then GTFO, don’t tie em up, don’t make em think you’re flirting.
I doubt it makes their day noticeably better. It hasn’t seem to make them noticeably worse. They’re probably burned out and don’t want to emotionally invest further into their job.
scarabic@lemmy.world 3 days ago
Jack@lemmy.ca 3 days ago
Might this be an extravert thing? Do extraverts enjoy being told to have a good day?
I prefer not to, and I also don’t want to be told to smile. I’ll put up with banalities like “Hi” even when there’s no need to actually get attention, and “Thanks” when the person clearly isn’t thankful; but if asked “How are you?” I might actually answer and they probably won’t like my answer if they didn’t mean it.
Maybe introverted people put more value in honesty and not wasting time?
rumba@lemmy.zip 2 days ago
Dunno, I’m an introvert who’s gotten better at extrovert cosplay over the decades