Comment on Americans: How the hell do you meet new people or get into relationships after college?
scarabic@lemmy.world 19 hours ago
Volunteer. Audition for community theater. Get a job. Join a hiking group. Take an adult learning class. Download a dating app. Get yourself out there.
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 17 hours ago
it’s a good way to meet new people. i do many of those things. none of them are good for meeting young single women.
bstix@feddit.dk 15 hours ago
You have to consider: Do you actually want to meet a young woman who hangs out in bars, restaurants and airports? Spend all night talking about her Gucci bag from Dubai or some shit?
If those are the options you have, I’d choose the old married lesbian any day.
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 12 hours ago
No, you simple be alone and be happy pursuing your life rather than trying being with someone who looks down on you for not caring about Gucci bags and doing having a happy and socially positive life that isn’t about crass materialism.
dazzlingclitgame@lemmy.world 16 hours ago
Traveling - notoriously not a hobby.
scarabic@lemmy.world 14 hours ago
I was responding to OP asking about friends and relationships, so not just “young single women.” But I did also say try a dating app. Singles is pretty much all those are for.
Obviously no one can give you town-specific suggestions but are bars and restaurants the only things women do you where you live? I’d be very surprised if that’s true.
dazzlingclitgame@lemmy.world 13 hours ago
This guy does not hold women in very high esteem. I doubt he knows much at all about what women actually do and enjoy.
scarabic@lemmy.world 13 hours ago
I didn’t say it above but I completely agree. He sounds about half an inch from using the word “females” at some point.