because he’s not attractive.
women don’t fuck ugly men unless money is involved.
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shalafi@lemmy.world 4 days ago
How does a man make it to 26 without slipping, tripping and falling in some pussy?! By 32: Had two girls I never met come knocking one night. Neighbor dropped their cousin on me, two nights in a row. Had a stripper I’d blown off the night before barge in my room and have her way with me. Weirdly, I don’t think I’ve ever met and immediately bedded someone I met at a bar, despite 2,000 nights in bars. :( Maybe once? Much of my youth is a blur.
For context; I’m short and scrawny, not exactly Brad Pitt here fellas. Is all it takes showering, basic hygiene, dressing decently and not being a weirdo?!
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 4 days ago
ozymandias@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 days ago
women fuck ugly men all of the time without money… actually they’re way waaaay more likely to prioritize personality over looks than men…
you do not know quite a few 40+ virgins, you know bots, liars, and people with horrible personalities on an incel forums
you have to actually try to interact with women before you can make that judgement… and not just thinking about fucking them while mumbling and sweating… or hollering “hey baby” from your car….
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 3 days ago
they don’t find those men ugly. it’s about attraction.
i have slept with dozens of women. i am well versed in how women work. and how unreliable their self reporting about sex is.
ozymandias@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 days ago
there is literally nothing you can say about all women that’s true.
yes it’s requires that they find something attractive about you. Sometimes status is part of it? but never in my experiences…
each woman is as different about what they find attractive as men are… it’s literally exactly the same, but with different social pressures that color people’s perceptions.
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but this is all standard, boiler plate, “incel” talking points.
all of MY women friends sleep with guys that they like… sometimes they find out they don’t like them anymore and they don’t sleep with them anymore (aka break up).
your problem is you’re not aware of why women generally don’t like you, but i can tell you a great place to start is to stop seeing them as this separate creature from men. stop seeing them as this vessel for your dick and as the people they are, each one enjoying their lives and navigating it in their own ways…
then get to know them for real… not screen caps of bots pretending to be women on twitterthe very root of it all is you’re seeing “pick up artist” theories on evolutionary psychology as just pure facts (also where the word “incel” comes from).
but instead of using it to manipulate a small percentage of vulnerable women, you’re using it to defeat yourself without trying.
most relationships start from people you work with or around… because they can get to know you over time, build trust, and they can see you demonstrate some level of ability and competence in something…
not just “hey baby, check out these biceps”
Apytele@sh.itjust.works 4 days ago
Oh hey I spent my 20s jumping guys like you. It’s all those things you mentioned. A guy that’s decently hygienic and decently unlikely to just rape me if I needed to back out was basically my entire checklist.