If your first lines are that ignorant it’s not worth going through the rest. It’s weird and creepy to just eavesdrop like that for hours then brazenly jump into their conversation to drop a pickup line.
What on earth do you have against paragraphs? I don’t want to read your comments just based on the formatting, let alone the actual content.
Responding to the content though: In this situation, this woman was being social at a bar with her friends. Women existing in public is not an open invitation to bother them and being unable to read social cues is probably a big part of Anon’s problems with women. Women utilize a great deal of non-verbal communication and not being able to read that or refusing to even try is a great way to plaster oneself in red flags.
treesapx@lemmy.world 10 hours ago
If your first lines are that ignorant it’s not worth going through the rest. It’s weird and creepy to just eavesdrop like that for hours then brazenly jump into their conversation to drop a pickup line.
sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 hours ago
Ok.
Let me explain how bars work.
They are generally fairly small and crowded.
There are often a lot of people having conversations with a lot of other people.
You can often hear some, or most of these, depending on where you are sitting.
Overhearing other peoples private conversations, that they are having in a public space, often loudly…
… That is not eavesdropping.
That is existing, in a bar.
Framing this as eavesdropping is absurd.
medgremlin@midwest.social 44 minutes ago
What on earth do you have against paragraphs? I don’t want to read your comments just based on the formatting, let alone the actual content.
Responding to the content though: In this situation, this woman was being social at a bar with her friends. Women existing in public is not an open invitation to bother them and being unable to read social cues is probably a big part of Anon’s problems with women. Women utilize a great deal of non-verbal communication and not being able to read that or refusing to even try is a great way to plaster oneself in red flags.
frog_brawler@lemmy.world 9 hours ago
Some of the people in this thread have very clearly never been to a bar. They only speak with strangers in text form.
Rekorse@sh.itjust.works 10 hours ago
Do you talk to yourself often?