Comment on Anon asks out a girl
TheTechnician27@lemmy.world 2 weeks agoAlso… what world are you living in where talking to someone you haven’t previously met, in a bar, is a social faux pas?
It’s not inherently. That’s why the sentence had more words than just the ones about being strangers. I expect you to know how to read sentences given your comment is a fucking wall of them.
sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 weeks ago
Try reading all of them.
treesapx@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
If your first lines are that ignorant it’s not worth going through the rest. It’s weird and creepy to just eavesdrop like that for hours then brazenly jump into their conversation to drop a pickup line.
sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 weeks ago
Ok.
Let me explain how bars work.
They are generally fairly small and crowded.
There are often a lot of people having conversations with a lot of other people.
You can often hear some, or most of these, depending on where you are sitting.
Overhearing other peoples private conversations, that they are having in a public space, often loudly…
… That is not eavesdropping.
That is existing, in a bar.
Framing this as eavesdropping is absurd.
frog_brawler@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
Some of the people in this thread have very clearly never been to a bar. They only speak with strangers in text form.
medgremlin@midwest.social 2 weeks ago
What on earth do you have against paragraphs? I don’t want to read your comments just based on the formatting, let alone the actual content.
Responding to the content though: In this situation, this woman was being social at a bar with her friends. Women existing in public is not an open invitation to bother them and being unable to read social cues is probably a big part of Anon’s problems with women. Women utilize a great deal of non-verbal communication and not being able to read that or refusing to even try is a great way to plaster oneself in red flags.
Rekorse@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
Do you talk to yourself often?