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frezik@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

• Ifera@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  Ugh, casual sexism. Look at the bottom of the barrel, and judge an entire gender by the way those behave.

  A lot of guys, gay or otherwise, don’t think or behave like that. And by your own definition, you’re also the worst. Sucks to have that terrible self esteem, but don’t lump me up with your self-hating ass

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  • frezik@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    Try an experiment: go on Fetlife and setup a profile as a fem. Start collecting DMs. It might be enlightening.

    And by your own definition, you’re also the worst.

    Yes, you’re very smart.

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    • turdcollector69@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      I’d bet any amount of money that they would respond to any criticism of men with a 5,000 page dissertation but any criticism of women would just get an upvote.

      Lemmy is, for better or worse, much like early 2010’s reddit. You’ve got a generally left leaning vibe with intense neckbeard bullshit mixed in.

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      • frezik@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨6⁩ ⁨minutes⁩ ago

        Yeah, and they don’t even have a clue how clueless they are.

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      • Ifera@lemmy.world ⁨14⁩ ⁨minutes⁩ ago

        Super easy to assume when you’re no actually betting. Or finding a 5,000 page dissertation. But of course, moving the goalposts, claiming it was a hyperbole, grandstanding and virtue signaling without actually checking yourself for biases is all what most people do, on any end of the sociopolitical spectrum.

        And tagging anything you disagree with as neckbeard, incel and other derrogative, thought ending cliches, while defending blanket statements about entire groups of people, hard to believe the cognitive dissonance doesn’t make more people uncomfortable.

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    • Ifera@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      Open garbage can > Look in > Mostly garbage.

      How very insightful of you, mate.

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      • frezik@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

        Funny how I never seem to have these issues with fems and non-binary people. Even the ones who grew up masc. In fact, most of the problems there are a direct result of really shitty behavior from men and trying to cope with it.

        Instead of going “not all men”, maybe try to point out shitty behavior? Maybe one day, we can get past all this.

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  • BigBenis@lemmy.world ⁨21⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    As a human being, human beings are the worst. If it wasn’t for our tendency to completely dominate our environments, I don’t know why the world would put up with us.

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  • shalafi@lemmy.world ⁨21⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    I was dating hot and heavy a couple of years ago. Fun first date question was to ask the woman about bad first dates they’ve had. Jesus fucking Christ, I have no idea why they keep trying with us men! I have exactly 1 horrible first date story, and that was more stupid than horrible.

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