“Its surprisingly common” OK buddy. Also yes, if you have a misogynistic belief about women, and then act on that belief, then it becomes misogynistic. Following a black person around a store isn’t racist; doing so because you think their a thief makes it so.
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Soulg@ani.social 4 hours agoYes he was being a bit rude but it is surprisingly common for women to expect the men to pay for their friends and it is not at all unreasonable for him to put his foot down early and refuse before she even asks.
Garbagio@lemmy.zip 3 hours ago
echodot@feddit.uk 3 hours ago
Nowhere in the screenshot does she ever say she expected the guy to pay for her friend.
He’s getting mad about a made-up situation in his head. How do you actually deal with someone who’s mad about something that hasn’t happened.
Jerkface@lemmy.world 2 hours ago
The situation OP predicted wasn’t the one where she asks up front.