Comment on That's an impressive drop. Any ideas why?

Doomsider@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

• Nikls94@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  An ex once who told me that she had a rape fetish, was totally into it. I was against it but since she was longing for it so badly I told her “I‘ll do it during week 18 but I won’t tell you when” and she was excited.

  Long story short: she enjoyed it while it lasted but cried afterwards because I was too harsh.

  Years later I ran into her husband and it turned out that she has BPD.

  I am very lucky to have had a written contract back then.

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  • JackbyDev@programming.dev ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    I think generally you’d want to start smaller when trying any CNC stuff. But hey, a lot of kinks exist only in our minds but aren’t something people want to try, and sometimes we find out the hard way. I hope you two have each other the aftercare needed to move past that.

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    • Nikls94@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      Of course we did! CNC without aftercare is unacceptable

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      • JackbyDev@programming.dev ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

        💜💜💜

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• outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  So we’re gonna see it go back up?

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