Comment on How did that 22-year-old get on in the date his dad set him up with?

Bricriu@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

• frightful_hobgoblin@lemmy.ml ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  There was a post a post in this comm on Tuesday.

  Title something like ‘should I be embarassed’

  Pic was a screenshot of text messages: Dad says, “You’re 22, you’ve never had a girlfriend, I’ve arranged a date for you on Friday [i.e. the 15th]. She’s 27. Pics to follow. No objections.” The son was posting asking advice should he go or not.

  The post is now deleted. We wanna know how the date went.

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  • Odo@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    I found a federated copy of the post: m.lemmy.hostux.net/posts/l.hostux.net/c/…/386931

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    • dysprosium@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      I’m interested in how’d find such a thing as a “federated copy.” Do you just go on a federated instance and search for the same post? Or copy the ID number in the URL? And how’d you choose the right instance, luck?

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      • JackbyDev@programming.dev ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        It seems like a bug in this case. Generally if a post is deleted on its home instance it is supposed to tell it to be deleted on others. Maybe they deleted this account instead of deleting the post and this made it act funky.

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      • Odo@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        Sadly it was much more tame: search engines. They’ve been crawling Lemmy for a couple years now. I remembered just enough to get hits on that post from a couple instances. Luckily one didn’t delete it when OP scrapped the original. I’m a bit curious myself why that is, but in any case it gives us a backup of the post.

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      • Jayjader@jlai.lu ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        Not who you’re asking, but I assume you find either an instance that is slow to federate, or one that doesn’t honor deletion requests.

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  • DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Lmfao my older brother is about to get into an arranged marriage (as in the consensual type), this is much more tame in comparison.

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  • TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    I didn’t click on it and thought it was just a meme

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