Comment on Anon puts himself out there

Pulptastic@midwest.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

• echodot@feddit.uk ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

  I got to “she has to go to bed” before I realised that this was all the same day.

  Trauma dumping can be cathartic but perhaps maybe don’t do it within the first two hours of having met someone. Also don’t do it too much because your problems aren’t there problems.

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  • SoleInvictus@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    It’s definitely a third date or beyond activity. When I was single, I always asked third dates to compare their emotional baggage with me, but wouldn’t discuss it in depth until later. We all have it, so might as well bring it out.

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    • RawHex@lemmy.ml ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Not being genuine is also bad you know.

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• lessthanluigi@lemmy.sdf.org ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

  I guess wait until the afternoon or something then?

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