I can attest, got out of a long term relationship a while back and have had absolutely no interest in getting involved with anyone to any degree, and I have been getting way more attention than I’m used to. Having no interest, however, just leads to me awkwardly smiling, a moment of silence while they’re waiting for reciprocation, and then me saying, “Thanks. Well, you have yourself a good one!” and scurrying away to play Red Dead 2.
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boonhet@sopuli.xyz 2 days agoYou’re also more confident when you’re not looking for anything tbh
NotASharkInAManSuit@lemmy.world 2 days ago
bjoern_tantau@swg-empire.de 2 days ago
That’s especially great with salary negotiations. When you’ve already got a stable job there is nothing to lose from aiming high.