Comment on Anon gets philosophical

• Wizard_Pope@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  I have been with my gf for 6 years and not once have I gotten any so… I would take a bad one over none. She does not even seem to enjoy me going down on her sadly. So no oral sex in this relationship.

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  • SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world ⁨19⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    If she’s not ace, maybe she should ask her Dr about hormone imbalances.

    Women who don’t get enough testosterone can have low libido.

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    • Wizard_Pope@lemmy.world ⁨17⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      She could be ace. She was on hormonal birth control for like 1.5 years without any real change. Would hormonal imbalance show a different way as well? I don’t want to just tell her to go get that checked because she has low libido.

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      • SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world ⁨12⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        Hormonal imbalances can worsen the symptoms of depression.

        But maybe talk and see if she has a desire to be more intimate but just isn’t ever in the mood, or if she doesn’t have a desire to be more intimate. Because if the desire isn’t there, that could be a different thing like maybe being ace.

        My wife found she was low on T because she didn’t like never feeling horny and asked her Dr. Her depression has improved since she started hormone supplements too.

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