It’s similar to when people say, “You’re not really an atheist, you just haven’t found the right religion.”
No bi person is ever believed by a non-bi person.
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TankovayaDiviziya@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
I don’t know why bisexuals are being given a hard time, and I am too afraid to ask at this point.
Speculater@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
sundray@lemmus.org 3 weeks ago
There’s bunch of stereotype surround bisexuals. For example, that bisexuality doesn’t exist – like that they’re actually gay, but won’t admit it, or it’s a stepping-stone to being gay. Or that they’re actually straight but just fucking with lesbians and won’t ever commit, or that they’re promiscuous and will always cheat. Or, that once they do settle down it’ll always be with an opposite-gender partner. Or that they’re cowards who’ll mask their queerness instead of supporting the LGBTQA+ community, since they can always pretend to be straight… and so much more! It fucking sucks!
Delphia@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Why cant a guy just really like blowjobs and not be fussy. Always with the labels.
13igTyme@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
When you stick you sick through a hole in the wall, it all feels the same.
KeenFlame@feddit.nu 3 weeks ago
But like… Why wouldn’t they be allowed to do any of those things by others? Like are they the internal investigation department of free love movement like it’s a fucking paradox? Did they forget in 0.1ms it’s not up to them who I fuck?
sundray@lemmus.org 3 weeks ago
I won’t pretend that some negative stereotypes about bisexuals don’t originate from broken-hearted unisexual folks’ lived experience (which is still no excuse to defame all bisexuals), but a lot – A LOT – of bisexual stereotypes and erasure comes from old-fashioned homophobia.
Feathercrown@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Unisexuals when they see a unicycle
LadyButterfly@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
That’s an excellent point