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sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 18 hours agoWait, can you not be a hetero top or a hetero dom?
I… don’t see how it is heteronormative to use an image that evokes sexual acts… to… imply a sexual interpretation of a typo.
Its… just a way to use a more SFW, recognizable meme.
Like, they could have used … whats her name, Anhka, from that Animal Crossing porn anim that went viral a few years back, very obviously topping someone… but that would have been a lot more explicit.
Lois is also like, in the act of suiting up, with a non plussed, unenthusiastic expression, implying that … there is a job-like aspect to this, yet another dumb charade/performance demanded by society to keep participating in it.
ryedaft@sh.itjust.works 17 hours ago
Give her a strap on and it’s fine
sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 hours ago
So your stance actually is that a woman in a dominatrix suit is always propogating heteronormativity… unless she’s wearing a strapon… while could be construed as being used for penetrating either a man or a woman or anyone else.
So in your mind, BDSM is heteronormative unless it explicity is made clear that it is not.
That would mean that in your mind, pegging is not heteronormative, even if it is going on between a heterosexual couple… even though a man being pegged very, very much goes against the general social view of how sex between a man and a woman works or should work.
… You have a very different understanding of what heteromormativity is and means than I do.
JandroDelSol@lemmy.world 12 hours ago
I think the heteronormativity comes from the idea that men are always the ones both doing the penetrating and taking charge in the bedroom lol