So she sent no details on plans of her event?
And you asked for deets and crickets?
You can’t go if you don’t know.
Comment on Discussion Thread 🎨 Monday 16 June 2025
LowExperience2368@aussie.zone 3 days ago
Two weeks ago, an acquaintance-y of a friend said she’s having a birthday party this weekend and that she hopes I’m free. Gave no details, just said it was happening. I have heard nothing from her since, and she has left the last thing I sent on read. I don’t really want to go anyway. Knowing her, she will probably text me the night of asking if I’m free, even though she is a Type A person and plans things in advance, so I don’t think I’ll follow it up.
So she sent no details on plans of her event?
And you asked for deets and crickets?
You can’t go if you don’t know.
Yeah it was just, “I’m doing birthday drinks on this day, hope you’re free!”
Be direct.
“I would love to come. When and where is it?”
tone212_@aussie.zone 3 days ago
Is this the same friend that shows up late all the time?! Another sign of lacking respect of other people’s time.
LowExperience2368@aussie.zone 3 days ago
Nope, this is someone else entirely. I think I need new friends honestly.