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This is one of my fears. I can’t imagine the betrayal and lack of ethics. I can’t imagine a person who would sell their souls to date someone they hate like this. Just thinking about it ugh! I’m in a community with a bunch of degenerates and sometimes I’ve dated guys who just seem to be lying through their teeth that they like me. I stopped frequenting their bars. Doesn’t help when the photographer at events is an undercover cop. I’m not the one in biker gangs but I stopped going because of all the fake suspicion. Still I’d need soooooo much therapy. I hope she got a huuuuge settlement.

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Mustakrakish@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
If they slept together he raped her with government backing

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- grue@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
  
  Kennedy, who resigned from the Met in 2010, had sexual relationships with as many as 10 other women while undercover.
  
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chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
Maybe not as huge as it should be but

In 2021, the Investigatory Powers Tribunal (IPT) ordered the Met Police and NPCC to pay a total of £229,471 to Ms Wilson “by way of just satisfaction for the breaches of her human rights”

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- nomy@lemmy.zip ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
  Not nearly enough.
  
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- grrgyle@slrpnk.net ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
  I hope a sincere apology was included in that as well.
  
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  - Tweak@feddit.uk ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
    They were required to apologise also, although sincerity cannot be ensured.
    
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  - MrPoletki@feddit.uk ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
    and some goddam alimony, not from the state either, from the cop.
    
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ByteJunk@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

“This is one of my fears”

I’m so sorry that this is actually a concern that someone legitimately feels. It’s unbelievable to me that anyone could date someone they don’t like, for whatever reason…

sends hug

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