Comment on Anon is worried about men

• Guns0rWeD13@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

  it’s just that you’re fragile and a disgrace. it’s revolting. the fascists are taking over. grow some confidence. we need heroes, not insecure little boys. you know what will get you laid real quick? bashin the fash.

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  • Aqarius@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    Yes, fragility is disgracefvll veakness. To defeat the enemy ze men mvst be strong, zey mvst be heroes, zey must have vill to seize vhat zey vant. It vill to pover zat vill tvrn little boys into strong men. Zis is antifascism.

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• Critical_Thinker@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

  If every individual you approach gives you a lecture you might want to check out not being around those people. Try something different.

  I’ve never, ever gotten a lecture. I’ve been married for about four years, but before the pandemic I picked up 4 women in a year that led to relationships of months before I ended them when I realized there wasn’t enough there to keep me interested. Don’t get me wrong, i’ve been dumped plenty and rejected plenty. I just learned to move on from the rejection.

  It’s like job hunting, it’s a numbers game and every time you try you have a chance. Every time you don’t try nothing changes.

  I just can’t imagine being lectured just by approaching someone and saying hi, asking them a question that is pertinent to the scenario, and giving them a chance to speak.

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  • SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    You haven’t tried dating GenZ women then.

    They specifically tell you not to approach women in public.

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    • Critical_Thinker@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

      If you’re approaching strangers and asking them for a date and you aren’t an adonis, wealthy or otherwise instantly recognizable in a positive way, you’re gonna get some real negative responses. No one wants some rando just asking them out, but this is not new, this is why if you go to a bar you have a wing man - being solo looks creepy.

      It’s true though that I wouldn’t have dated women who are 28 or younger (seems to be the oldest of gen Z.) I’m 40. Even though i’m of another generation it’s basically been a 10% chance or less to approach someone and ask them out… but again if you don’t try it never happens. Most people are in a relationship ALL the time… the best relationships i’ve found have been by making friends first in real world circumstances (board game meetups, parties, work functions/events, hiking meetups, running meetups… you name it…) and then being friendly and literally making friends with people. If you click with someone you can literally feel it, and if you like them enough then after you’re already at least friendly acquaintances you ask them to something.

      If you can’t ever make friends at a meetup or event, especially one that invites strangers and often has newcomers, the problem is you.

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      • SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

        Sounds like a lot of games and manipulation that is way less intuitive than equal relationships.

        I’m glad men are adopting the same standards as women. Now women will need to learn to initiate relationships, and our society can move twoards a more equal one.

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• UniversalMonk@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

  Enough negative experiences reinforce and define behavior.

  Unless you don’t let them.

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