Comment on Anon is worried about men

• superniceperson@sh.itjust.works ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Have you actually tried taking unrepentant time off, where you have no work or social obligations, and grabbing unhealthy snacks and drinks, curling up with a good game, and zoning out of reality for hours or days at a time?

  Sex is nice and all, and we’re hard wired to like it more than most activities, but it does not hold a single candle to unrepentant free time when you’re not used to said free time.

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  • UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Have you actually tried taking unrepentant time off, where you have no work or social obligations, and grabbing unhealthy snacks and drinks, curling up with a good game, and zoning out of reality for hours or days at a time?

    Cosplaying as a free human? Yeah I would love to pretend for a little while and forget the shit planet I was forced to exist on.

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  • ScoopMcPoops@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    What a crazy way to say you’ve never had sex.

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  • JackbyDev@programming.dev ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    All that but getting a handie.

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• thisisnotgoingwell@programming.dev ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Good sex is honestly a toss up, I’ve had great sex in horrible relationships and bad sex in great relationships. I understand being in love with someone enhances it but love is a feeling which is impossible to sustain permanently

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• lightnsfw@reddthat.com ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  I’ve not found loving someone to help with the quality of the sex all that much. Maybe they just didn’t love me back or something. The crazy one was always great but the rest of that relationship was a mess.

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  • UniversalMonk@sh.itjust.works ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    The crazy one was always great and was the only one who wanted it as often as I did but the rest of that relationship was a mess.

    I’ve disagree with most of the posts in this thread. But I gotta say, this stereotype is true in my experience. I have dated a lot of crazy women, and mostly because even the everything else with them is a crazy fucked up mess, the sex is always amazing. The best sex I’ve ever had was with the crazy girls who were overly dramatic, and just always made shitty choices (like sleeping with me! haha)

    I say this as someone who is in a kinda serious relationship now (she wants to get married, I’m not quite there yet). Love her lots, sex is great, but man, nothing matches the absolute insanity filthy sex that I had with the crazy girls. It’s something about that just not giving a fuck what they think or lack of respect, or something… But no lie, I kinda don’t wanna get married because don’t wanna give that all up just yet.

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• UniversalMonk@sh.itjust.works ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Sex with someone you love is the best thing.

  It is! But sex with someone ya don’t love is pretty awesome too!

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