Given how a lot of women are, don’t be creepy does mean “don’t approach them at all. Unless I’m interested in you, which I won’t tell you because men have to make the first move”.
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surph_ninja@lemmy.world 2 weeks agoIf you mistook ‘don’t be creepy’ for ‘don’t approach women at all,’ then yeah. You’re probably in a mental place where you shouldn’t approach.
calcopiritus@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
surph_ninja@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
That wasn’t my experience at all when dating. Just treat them like a person. Be friends. If you get on ok, then make your move. They often beat me to it.
If the cold open approach isn’t working, change strategies.
ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 weeks ago
No dating for the autists, got it.
surph_ninja@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
Dating is a social activity. I’m not sure how you do it without being able to perform socially, but there’s probably resources out there to learn from.
DontMakeMoreBabies@lemm.ee 1 week ago
ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 week ago
This comment said “newsflash not every animal gets to reproduce,” which equates autistic people with less than favorable social skills to animals who deserve to die without experiencing love.
Mmmmhmm. Howbout you go fuck yourself Mr. “Deleted.”