Comment on Anon is worried about men

• Flocklesscrow@lemm.ee ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Then perhaps we should expect changes/shifts in women’s behavior to bridge the gap?

  I don’t think that cultural evolution is happening - look at Bumble, which had its premise/differentiation with women making the “first move.” They eventually had to nix the feature, because…women didn’t want to make the first move; they wanted to be pursued. Meanwhile, apps in general are just a minefield of emotional rejection, while Corporate ownership drags men through the muck as long as possible to get those $$$. So most men simply stop using apps and simply wait for some kind of IRL meet-cute. And that sparingly happens in a society that has very, very few places for non-commercial social overlap.

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  • fluffykittycat@slrpnk.net ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Commercial dating apps are a failed idea. We need something better

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    • FatTony@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      ~Like~ ~approaching~ ~women?~

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    • yeather@lemmy.ca ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      4chan funded their own dating app. It was alright.

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• drascus@sh.itjust.works ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  well then they should step up and start asking people out instead of waiting for guys to do it.

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• madjo@feddit.nl ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Then they get to step up and approach men for a change.

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