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That being said, you need to be able to handle criticism (constructive or not) in order for that conversation to happen and benefit you

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CookieOfFortune@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
And if you’re the type that does not handle criticism well, don’t expect honest answers. So you should first determine if you are ok at handling criticism.

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- SadSadSatellite@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
  And if you’re that type, we’ve already found the answer you wanted in the first place.
  
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- hoshikarakitaridia@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
  That said, also remember everyone has their emotional baggage so if ppl criticise you, don’t take it at face value eather.
  
  I know, criticism and therefore self-reflection is hard. I’ve been over overcompensating and self optimizing to the point that ppl tell me to start being more confident and basically try do more mistakes. It’s always a balancing act.
  
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ReluctantMuskrat@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
And part of his problem might be who he’s chosing to date. Bad partner choices aren’t necessarily going to give you helpful feedback.

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