Are you the kind of person who thinks pranks are inappropriate too?
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webghost0101@sopuli.xyz 4 weeks ago
Op should tell her asap. Op caused this and if op truly cares about the situation they should take responsibility and the blame.
Worser cases reality 1: The panic attack was unrelated and Op is a stone cold bastard for not asking/showing empathy about it.
Worser cases reality 2: Gf thinks there was someone else and she had cheated with on accident, these panic attacks keep occurring as its settles as a deep trust issues complex.
Best case reality: Op tells her straight to the point and offers a sincere apology. Gf forgives op, and the relationship is strengthened in the long term.
Mixed reality: Gf is furious and dumps Op on the spot. They both dodged a red flag and were simply not compatible in finding eachothers boundaries. You don’t pull jokes like that on a single whim, it’s clearly part of their nature.
This is a green text and probably fake btw.
OsrsNeedsF2P@lemmy.ml 4 weeks ago
lka1988@sh.itjust.works 4 weeks ago
Pranks are only funny when everybody is laughing.
webghost0101@sopuli.xyz 4 weeks ago
Not at all, i just respect that people have personal boundaries and its ok to not be compatible with everyone.
Personally i would love this prank. But i also dis experience one where my headphones disappeared and reappeared in my Locker where i would never put them. I am autistic and mentally just spiraled till my best friend came clear.
TherapyGary@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 weeks ago
As someone who has experienced psychotic episodes in the past, this “prank” would really fuck me up in a really unfunny way.
We don’t know much about the gf, but we know that she supposedly had a panic attack over it, and that’s not funny.
I’d find it funny only if I was told within a couple minutes (before having a panic attack, contacting my psychiatrist, and making arrangements for a potential inpatient stay), and I would absolutely dump a partner who’d refuse to apologize for this.
You honestly wouldn’t apologize to your partner after your ‘prank’ gave them a panic attack?
don@lemm.ee 4 weeks ago
YOU SAY SIKE RIGHT NOW GODDAMMIT