Comment on Meaning/implication of “you don’t have to do this” in this context?
ExperimentalGuy@programming.dev 1 week ago
It really depends on tone and how long the interaction would last. I’d consider saying that rude most of the time as the person making small talk is just doing something nice.
I’m not exactly sure how to respond to that.
I’d consider saying that rude most of the time as the person making small talk is just doing something nice.
the question here is how many hints/suggestions/requests has OP already blown past? if all they talk about is the weather, chances are you should just let the conversation drop.
I just remained in silence, then asked them some questions like “So… how’s life?”
Yeah; they got the read that you were feeling awkward with silence, but they didn’t want to be asked questions about their life.
Thanks!
darkdemize@sh.itjust.works 1 week ago
I’d say the correct way to respond is by not saying anything. They’ve clearly indicated that they aren’t interested in continuing the conversation.