AuroraGlamour
@AuroraGlamour@lemmy.ml
On this account, I can see more posts I couldn’t see before.
anime nerd
She/her
Learning JP, ZH
私は中国語より日本語が上ですが、私の日本語はまだ上手じゃない。
- Comment on [deleted] 1 day ago:
Ashlyn really likes sports, but she found out one day that Lena does not. Ashlyn got mad at Lena for being bad at sports despite not playing, tried to hurt(?) Lena multiple times by throwing the ball at her face/head, etc. She also expects Lena to catch a ball that she throws way over her head, behind her or in a completely different direction (Ex: If Ashlyn throws to a girl who is standing across the room from Lena and way to the right, she expects Lena to catch it, not the other girl).
Ashlyn has talked behind her back and started fights with Lena multiple times, threatening to kick her out of the friend group permanently and never speak to her again. Often, the reasons will be for petty stuff such as: not liking her disorder, not liking her tics, not liking her stutter, saying hi to her, or confusing one word for another (ex: saying “instigating” instead of “antagonizing”).
After “throwing Lena away”, so to speak, she then acts really nice and really wants Lena to talk to her again. Lena has gotten used to this by now, I’m sure.
- Comment on what language would be best for me to learn? 6 days ago:
mi olin e toki pona!!
- Comment on will i fit in more with china/japan or russia or their communities in terms of acceptance/blending in? 1 week ago:
Maybe East Asia, appearance-wise, though they will probably be able to tell you’re half.
- Comment on is it ableist to “support equal rights and those with disabilities” but think someone is terrible and doesn’t deserve rights for showing signs of a disability? 2 weeks ago:
Seems more like a rant to me, or someone being gaslit.
- Comment on is it ableist to “support equal rights and those with disabilities” but think someone is terrible and doesn’t deserve rights for showing signs of a disability? 2 weeks ago:
File a restraining order.
- Comment on is it ableist to “support equal rights and those with disabilities” but think someone is terrible and doesn’t deserve rights for showing signs of a disability? 2 weeks ago:
Yes and these people should not have kids. They would probably disown their child for having a disability and are only kind to neurotypical people
- Comment on is it ok to call a woman “sir” in your opinion? 4 weeks ago:
I’d think you were blind.
- Comment on are my friends looking out for me or just ableist? 5 weeks ago:
Agreed. E sounds abusive. Cut contact, she’s using you and taking advantage of your disability because it’s all she sees you as.
- Comment on does captain Picard snore in Star Trek tng? 5 weeks ago:
I hardly remember him sleeping onscreen
- Comment on does captain Picard snore in Star Trek tng? 5 weeks ago:
What? 😂 I don’t think so LOL
- Comment on How can I create a Lemmy instance without coding or the use of Ethernet/router wiring? 5 weeks ago:
He wants to know how though
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- Comment on What tropes apply to this video? 1 month ago:
Not Dead, Just Asleep to me, as it looks like he was taking a nap
- Comment on gross either way, but do friends actually talk like this or would this be from people who are dating or something? 1 month ago:
It appears to be trolls (or one troll) who added OP a to the group chat. OP in previous screenshots told them to stop and they did not because they presumably wanted to mess with him
- Comment on gross either way, but do friends actually talk like this or would this be from people who are dating or something? 1 month ago:
The Emma person also stated to OP (a trans man) that he was a tomboy with moobs and that Emma only roleplayed with feminine women.
- Comment on gross either way, but do friends actually talk like this or would this be from people who are dating or something? 1 month ago:
Dating, I’d assume, since they’re sexting
- Comment on is it likely that someone like this will change? what would be her possible mindset for doing all this? 2 months ago:
That is true, but it still doesn’t seem like an excuse that she hurt OP and didn’t communicate to her how she felt respectfully.
- Comment on is it likely that someone like this will change? what would be her possible mindset for doing all this? 2 months ago:
Even if she did cut off contact, it seems this person is harassing her regardless.
- Comment on is it likely that someone like this will change? what would be her possible mindset for doing all this? 2 months ago:
she “hates threesomes”
Fine, I guess. This sounds like a boundary (of someone who’s monogamous) but the way she reacted makes it sound like you asked her out. If she tries to make it seem like you’re being actually romantic with her, it’s weird and it reminds me of those bullies who think “Oh, you’re a lesbian? OMG SHE HAS A CRUSH ON ME EW!” (Especially since you e stated before that you’re a lesbian/bi)
too “disgusting” to flirt with
Not ok.
we “weren’t close enough to be friends” even though she finds me “too inferior” to even try and be my friend.
I’d be glad she doesn’t consider me a friend. What an ableist creep.
she tries to be friends with my friends in a weird way, such as being overly nice and touching their shoulder/head, and it has been reported several times that she is somewhat creepy towards children irl and especially online and will go out of her way to follow and “befriend” children under 13 on social media apps.
Harassing you and obsessed with pre-pubescent kids. 🤢
she has also defended people who like children romantically and saying that their romance should be okay.
I don’t call your run-of-the-mill jerk a pedo to insult them, but I think she IS. Anyone who talks to minors to “be their friend” and supports the romance between someone under 12 and someone over 18 is probably one themselves. There’s a difference between her behavior and people who are kind to children as a babysitter, teacher, etc. And people like that (teachers and stuff) probably don’t want to befriend children and get their personal info.
she thinks i’m disgusting or inferior because of my disabilities. she’s nice to everyone else regardless of their disability, but they either have adhd or autism + adhd so maybe autism + bipolar isn’t “one of the good diagnoses”.
False ally, she’s trying to look good. Often these people will say they support people with disabilities but it’s only the ones that are “good” or “interesting”, so to speak. They’ll even say they support autism but will hate you and never speak to you again the second you show signs of it and start to unmask around them. People who only support “good diagnoses” are fake and gross.
- Comment on Is this possibly a jealousy thing? 2 months ago:
She has in the past, the bully finds a way to pin it on her.
She may be bullied, she apparently has a strict family and is obsessed with appearance.
- Comment on Is this possibly a jealousy thing? 2 months ago:
She apparently has NPD and strict parents (she is Mexican and black and said that she has a very strict culture)
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- Comment on Is it asshole behavior to hate someone for saying "Hi, how are you?" 2 months ago:
That makes a lot of sense, she was contributing to the conversation when she could
- Comment on Is it asshole behavior to hate someone for saying "Hi, how are you?" 2 months ago:
What upset you so much about it?
- Comment on Is it asshole behavior to hate someone for saying "Hi, how are you?" 2 months ago:
Correct
- Comment on Is it asshole behavior to hate someone for saying "Hi, how are you?" 2 months ago:
Doesn’t seem awkward to me, most people say “How are you?” when they see me.
I have photos of the conversation in other posts, Ash is literally insane.
- Comment on Is it asshole behavior to hate someone for saying "Hi, how are you?" 2 months ago:
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- Comment on Meaning of the phrase “Hang dead.”? 2 months ago:
Oooooh!