AuroraGlamour
@AuroraGlamour@lemmy.ml
On this account, I can see more posts I couldn’t see before.
anime nerd
She/her
Learning JP, ZH
私は中国語より日本語が上ですが、私の日本語はまだ上手じゃない。
- Comment on is it likely that someone like this will change? what would be her possible mindset for doing all this? 1 day ago:
That is true, but it still doesn’t seem like an excuse that she hurt OP and didn’t communicate to her how she felt respectfully.
- Comment on is it likely that someone like this will change? what would be her possible mindset for doing all this? 2 days ago:
Even if she did cut off contact, it seems this person is harassing her regardless.
- Comment on is it likely that someone like this will change? what would be her possible mindset for doing all this? 2 days ago:
she “hates threesomes”
Fine, I guess. This sounds like a boundary (of someone who’s monogamous) but the way she reacted makes it sound like you asked her out. If she tries to make it seem like you’re being actually romantic with her, it’s weird and it reminds me of those bullies who think “Oh, you’re a lesbian? OMG SHE HAS A CRUSH ON ME EW!” (Especially since you e stated before that you’re a lesbian/bi)
too “disgusting” to flirt with
Not ok.
we “weren’t close enough to be friends” even though she finds me “too inferior” to even try and be my friend.
I’d be glad she doesn’t consider me a friend. What an ableist creep.
she tries to be friends with my friends in a weird way, such as being overly nice and touching their shoulder/head, and it has been reported several times that she is somewhat creepy towards children irl and especially online and will go out of her way to follow and “befriend” children under 13 on social media apps.
Harassing you and obsessed with pre-pubescent kids. 🤢
she has also defended people who like children romantically and saying that their romance should be okay.
I don’t call your run-of-the-mill jerk a pedo to insult them, but I think she IS. Anyone who talks to minors to “be their friend” and supports the romance between someone under 12 and someone over 18 is probably one themselves. There’s a difference between her behavior and people who are kind to children as a babysitter, teacher, etc. And people like that (teachers and stuff) probably don’t want to befriend children and get their personal info.
she thinks i’m disgusting or inferior because of my disabilities. she’s nice to everyone else regardless of their disability, but they either have adhd or autism + adhd so maybe autism + bipolar isn’t “one of the good diagnoses”.
False ally, she’s trying to look good. Often these people will say they support people with disabilities but it’s only the ones that are “good” or “interesting”, so to speak. They’ll even say they support autism but will hate you and never speak to you again the second you show signs of it and start to unmask around them. People who only support “good diagnoses” are fake and gross.
- Comment on Is this possibly a jealousy thing? 3 days ago:
She has in the past, the bully finds a way to pin it on her.
She may be bullied, she apparently has a strict family and is obsessed with appearance.
- Comment on Is this possibly a jealousy thing? 3 days ago:
She apparently has NPD and strict parents (she is Mexican and black and said that she has a very strict culture)
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- Comment on Is it asshole behavior to hate someone for saying "Hi, how are you?" 1 week ago:
That makes a lot of sense, she was contributing to the conversation when she could
- Comment on Is it asshole behavior to hate someone for saying "Hi, how are you?" 1 week ago:
What upset you so much about it?
- Comment on Is it asshole behavior to hate someone for saying "Hi, how are you?" 1 week ago:
Correct
- Comment on Is it asshole behavior to hate someone for saying "Hi, how are you?" 1 week ago:
Doesn’t seem awkward to me, most people say “How are you?” when they see me.
I have photos of the conversation in other posts, Ash is literally insane.
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- Comment on Meaning of the phrase “Hang dead.”? 2 weeks ago:
Oooooh!
- Comment on Meaning of the phrase “Hang dead.”? 2 weeks ago:
The writer may not natively speak English
- Comment on Meaning of the phrase “Hang dead.”? 2 weeks ago:
Is it possible the writer doesn’t natively speak english?
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- Comment on Is there any other way to interpret these comments (convo between a 20 year old and 14 year old) 2 weeks ago:
Oh my God, this MF has a Lemmy account…
- Comment on Is there any other way to interpret these comments (convo between a 20 year old and 14 year old) 2 weeks ago:
- Comment on Is there any other way to interpret these comments (convo between a 20 year old and 14 year old) 2 weeks ago:
No, he (an adult) is weirdly obsessed with a boy (a MINOR) 6 years younger than him. This is effing disgusting and I can’t interpret it any other way. Him wanting to be shipped (which is typically a ROMANTIC pairing) with this boy coupled with wanting to go on a double date with him (“dates” can technically be platonic but not in this context) is weird and definitely romantic.
- Comment on would getting back with an ex be a bad idea? 2 weeks ago:
- Comment on would getting back with an ex be a bad idea? 2 weeks ago:
Probably just wants advice as an 18-year-old.
- Comment on would getting back with an ex be a bad idea? 2 weeks ago:
It’s also likely if he didn’t tell other people about you, that he didn’t tell other love interests about you and therefore cheated
- Comment on What is the name of the sexuality of being into the opposite gender and willing to date the same gender but not finding anyone of the same gender attractive? 3 weeks ago:
It seems very common with progressive straight women I’ve seen
- Comment on What is the name of the sexuality of being into the opposite gender and willing to date the same gender but not finding anyone of the same gender attractive? 3 weeks ago:
Ooooohhhh!! That’s awesome!!
- Comment on What is the name of the sexuality of being into the opposite gender and willing to date the same gender but not finding anyone of the same gender attractive? 3 weeks ago:
That’s very true!!
Honestly, with the friend example, she can imagine dating women, but it doesn’t mean she would/likes them that way. She’s still straight. Plus, it’s very rare to be 100% attracted to one gender anyway, but sexuality is a spectrum, and it’s still straight.
I’m a lesbian sexually. I haven’t tried sex with a man. I can imagine doing it, but I’ve only felt sexually attracted to my girlfriend, who’s obviously a woman. Despite being a lesbian, it doesn’t mean I’m 100% only sexually attracted to women and can’t even imagine doing it with a dude. It’s a fluid spectrum that changes over time.
And the other girl who this post is about may be like our friend (Mine and hers). She can imagine dating women and wouldn’t object (because it’s rare to be 100% attracted to only one gender), but since she can’t find a woman who attracts her and only men give her a spark, she might be straight, bicurious, or at least biromantic heterosexual.
- Comment on What is the name of the sexuality of being into the opposite gender and willing to date the same gender but not finding anyone of the same gender attractive? 3 weeks ago:
I have no idea, it’s either because she finds women aesthetically pleasing or she thinks finding a woman pretty = being attracted to women even though “I can’t find women that attract me” contradicts being into women.
I have another friend who could imagine dating a woman and also didn’t find them attractive. She was straight.
- Comment on What is the name of the sexuality of being into the opposite gender and willing to date the same gender but not finding anyone of the same gender attractive? 3 weeks ago:
Personally, I’m kind of the inverse. I’m romantically attracted to both genders and while I can find attractive men, I wouldn’t be interested in dating one.
- Comment on What is the name of the sexuality of being into the opposite gender and willing to date the same gender but not finding anyone of the same gender attractive? 3 weeks ago:
You like men but would be interested in dating women although they don’t attract you right now or…?
That’s pretty cool though :3
- Comment on What is the name of the sexuality of being into the opposite gender and willing to date the same gender but not finding anyone of the same gender attractive? 3 weeks ago:
That makes sense. She only talks about how hot men are and how she wants a boyfriend. She only can name male crushes and gushes over male musicians and actors. She finds women pretty and wants to feel towards women how she does towards men but can’t find any that make her feel that way. She can’t name any women crushes shes had ever and she’s mainly indifferent towards women as a partner.
So maybe straight, maybe straight + biromantic, no clue.
