There are generally nonverbal cues, yes. If you’re unsure, then asking is better.
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shalafi@lemmy.world 4 weeks ago
Who has to ask permission for a kiss?!
“Uh… can I… um… you know… uh…”
I’ve had enough girls give me that, “STFU and kiss me you idiot” look, which closely resembles the, “WTF is he waiting for?” look. Can’t image the look I was asking first.
Serinus@lemmy.world 4 weeks ago
gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de 4 weeks ago
Also, if you’re wrong, jail.
At least that’s the threat.
Tedesche@lemmy.world 4 weeks ago
My problem is that look so similar to the “Oh, God, he’s not thinking about kissing me, is he?” look.
shalafi@lemmy.world 4 weeks ago
If you lean in, she’s leaning in, faces close, DO IT.
If you find a girl with her face closing in, I promise you, she’s more likely waiting on you to make the move. DO IT.
One of my favorite lines was from Dostoevsky: “She was greatly moved (?) by his daring.” Something like that. Finally hit me. Yeah, women like a man who is bold.
That’s not a license to be a jerk. That means to be decisive.
“But what if she didn’t want me to kiss her?”
Then she wouldn’t have put her face so close to yours. Women aren’t clueless.
Schmoo@slrpnk.net 4 weeks ago
Autistic people deserve love too.
shalafi@lemmy.world 4 weeks ago
LOL, no. 19/20ths of y’all aren’t autistic, at all. The younger gen just got fucked over:
old.reddit.com/…/for_those_who_worklive_around_te…
I’d suggest everyone take a deep dive on those comments. See what you take out of it.
tl;dl: GenZ isn’t inherently fucked up, but they got fucked up. READ. IT. ALL.
Corr@lemm.ee 4 weeks ago
Interesting post. There definitely has been an increase in autism diagnoses which stems from it being much more widely accepted and looked into. There are significant differences between what’s described in the post and what I know of autism though. While I think what you show in this post is problematic, not 1:1 with autism at all IMO