BruhWaitWut

@BruhWaitWut@lemmy.zip

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨The Odds Are Good When The Goods Are Odd⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  I totally agree, except the final paragraph. I think the source of the communication issue is a combination of perceived tone in your initial comment and the sensitivity of the subject. Not to fully blame either. So I don’t think people are being belligerent or willfully ignorant.

  Conversations like these are a minefield, so don’t take it personally if you stumble. And remember why the minefield is there in the first place. Sometimes you just gotta back out, or set off more mines you meant to disarm.

  Metaphor got a bit lost, but I think you get the point.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨The Odds Are Good When The Goods Are Odd⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  Many people refuse to acknowledge the nuance of language development. Especially when mixed with what is socially acceptable. Because that’d mean conceding they could be hurting people.

  I’ll join you in the downvotes. You may be oversimplifying a bit too, but I see where you’re coming from.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨The Odds Are Good When The Goods Are Odd⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  You raise valid points, and context definitely matters, but I think when it comes to language it should be decided by the consensus within the minority it was originally used to describe.

  For example, most of the disabled community agrees “r-tard” is offensive these days, so it’s use has gone down. Just like “gay” before it. And white folks still argue the n-word should be fine for everyone to use if they end it with an a.

  I’m not saying minorities can’t reclaim words, and language definitely changes with time. But most women I interact with get uncomfortable when men around them say “bitch” routinely.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Might be reality sooner than you think⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Even calling that hallowed out shell a car is a big stretch.