MoonlightFox
@MoonlightFox@lemmy.world
- Comment on How would you forgive someone that poisoned your dog when they only offer bad faith apology ? 1 week ago:
Well… It depends.
Was it truly deliberate, as in “I want to poison this dog, so that it dies”? If yes, then there is hard to forgive, maybe not possible. The only way would be if they reported themself to the police and offered a sincere apology, and then I would not let them near my dog as long as it lives. But could maybe forgive in time if they did all that.
Deliberate is also not black and white. Were they negligent? As in knew that dogs can’t really have onions, but did fed them food with just a little bit of onion in it, thinking it would be fine? Negligence can be forgiven, but only with a sincere apology.
I would forgive them if it was not deliberate at all. Even with a pretty bad apology.
If this person is important in your life, or are closely related, I would explain to them that the apology did not feel sincere, and that you consider it hard to forgive. Ask that they try again.
Also, do forgive them for your own sake, no reason to be angry in the long term, but you don’t have to trust them.
If it was a child that did this everything is very different. The answer assumed a person 18-20+
That’s my take.
- Comment on Bumper sticker 2 weeks ago:
This is one of the things that bother me with people being anti-trans. Why the hell do they care? There is nothing, NOTHING that trans people are asking for that bother me, because it does not affect my life. I don’t see how it affects theirs either.
There are two things I know little about when it comes to trans.
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How to make it fair in sports, but I really don’t care for sports. So I haven’t researched it. Don’t really care if they participate, but I don’t take sports seriously anyways.
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How to protect vulnerable people from themselves. This is probably contraversial, but I am for giving trans people the treatment they need to transition, or at least make sure it is possible at a later stage by giving hormones / blockers. So that they can transition a bit older.
However (the controversial part) many trans people are vulnerable and also struggle with other issues and operations is often permanent. This is something that I don’t believe is easy to decide, I am ignorant here, I trust medical professionals, psychologists, psychiatrists and the trans community to come up with guidelines / practice here. It is however not something that I think politicians should decide, or is competent in deciding.
The only reason I care about point 2 is to protect people from mistakes, not to stop trans people from transitioning!
Thanks for reading my rant 😊
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- Comment on When you die, what do you want to be done with you? 3 weeks ago:
Just throw me in the trash
- Comment on Gridfinity creator gives his thoughts on Reddit, post-shitpost 4 weeks ago:
Just watched the one where he explains the headup display. So cool, I really like the thought of self-made custom wearable tech as well.
- Comment on Gridfinity creator gives his thoughts on Reddit, post-shitpost 4 weeks ago:
Wow, that was awesome! I haven’t seen any of his videos before. Makes me want to get a 3D printer
- Comment on Is it okay to take drugs to make yourself a better person? Does it make a difference if "better" is mental or if it's physical? 1 month ago:
Yes.
Some people have to use pills their entire lives. I take some for my disability. They make me more patient and less excited/stressed. They also reduce episodes in which I might harm myself or do things I regret. I am not my disease. I am me, and the medicine is like using crutches for my mind.
I can not solve my issues by talking to a therapist, so medicine is a requirement.
I find it kinda idiotic not to accept medicine that will make things better for you. It’s irrational. I don’t blame you for feeling it this way, I am not sure if this is a gendered issue, but as a man I took it quite hard when I had to start taking meds, it was as if I had a weakness and was less than my peers. “Men are supposed to be stoic and tough” (I have since changed perspective)
Take your meds, no-one will give you a medal or appriciate it if you don’t. You are also not weaker if you take them. It just makes life easier, like a good bed or a good home. Is having a good home a weakness? “What? You can’t survive on the street? You pussy!” /s
See the irrational way of thinking? Any comfortable choice can be called some form of weakness. So then the queation becomes: Why choose to have difficulty when nobody gains from it?
- Comment on I'm the developer of WalkScape, the RuneScape inspired fitness MMORPG where you progress by walking IRL. We're now accepting more people to the Closed Beta! 3 months ago:
I have the game installed now 😀 I like that all steps go towards a goal of some sort.
Found a tiny typo with the name for one of the hairstyles. If you search through your codebase for “adn bun” you will find it. Its probably supposed to say “and bun” 😊
- Comment on I'm the developer of WalkScape, the RuneScape inspired fitness MMORPG where you progress by walking IRL. We're now accepting more people to the Closed Beta! 3 months ago:
By the way, I got such a good impression that I became a BMAC contributor, looking forward to testing it!
- Comment on I'm the developer of WalkScape, the RuneScape inspired fitness MMORPG where you progress by walking IRL. We're now accepting more people to the Closed Beta! 3 months ago:
The game looks great! I really like that you don’t rely on GPS, because of privacy.
- Comment on What are some game series you would like to see revived? And if possible, which entry should the new game follow from? 3 months ago:
Those games were great!
- Comment on Do you prefer to buy games on Steam or GOG? 3 months ago:
That seems a bit tedious
- Comment on Do you prefer to buy games on Steam or GOG? 3 months ago:
I haven’t tried cloud sync yet. Relatively new to Heroic
- Comment on Do you prefer to buy games on Steam or GOG? 3 months ago:
I prefer GOG, due to being being DRM free.
On Linux I just use Heroic Games Launcher to install the GOG games and launch them. Its just as easy as proton on Steam
- Comment on Do you prefer to buy games on Steam or GOG? 3 months ago:
If ypu haven’t triedbir, you should try Heroic Games Launcher. Makes it just as easy to launch GoG games on Linux as Steam games
- Comment on Dune: Awakening – Exclusive Gameplay Reveal 3 months ago:
Looks good! I am a bit worried about it being an MMO, but Funcom has a lot of experience with making them. So might be good?
I’m especially looking forward to the interactions with sand worms and the thumper mechanics.