HorreC

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⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Has cancel culture gone too far?⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:
This is some bullshit, Cain was asked BY A GOD to kill (sacrifice) the thing he loved the most, he did it. Sure maybe you say it was jealousy but maybe it was love. It was the thing he was most proud of. God (this one says hes all knowing) knew this would happen yet people are down here blaming Cain.
⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Incident⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:
so wait you are saying they do have time to chat, which in a lot of these comments they state they dont have time for this. I think the logging of major things would be fine, but bathroom breaks and nap time hell all the other small things they have to log is dumb, and not really helpful if you are trying to get to the source of an issue (like bathroom incidences or they seem to be overly tired). Also I was never talking 30:1, if you look we showed its 10:1 legally.

Also how long did it take you to write that, were you on a phone or tablet? I know a lot of the people I know type really slow on a table due to how bad the keyboard is (this is not talking about a docked one). So pressing a few buttons then typing something out is like 2 to 5 min. I am just saying in the world where they dont have the time to talk to you (which I asked around and isnt the case, and you seem to say the same) they could be spending that time with the kids and then interact with me at the end/start of the day.
⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Incident⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:
its like you havent read what I said, You should want to talk to these people, dont treat them as a resource, they are caring for your children. This is the same with their teachers, you should want to talk to them, even more than the scheduled times.

You seem to think squeezing as much productivity out of them is the goal, but if we treated them like humans you might do better for them and in the long run your children.
⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Incident⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:
Yeah thinking that child raising is just a calculation to be figured out is just not the right way. Yes plan the day, but outside of play,eat,nap,reading time. You shouldnt be like did you log the child having a come apart for just being over stimulated?? Or the odd fight that happened over block that neither child wanted to play with?!
⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Incident⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:
its your child, you should WANT to talk to these people, they are not robots, you want to know their insights and maybe how the environment and mood of the place is.
⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Incident⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:
that is if everything is going to plan and you just have to press the childs button and action, but you also have to get the device at the time to so you should at least add in 5 seconds for that. But again, children are not like this, so the care giver once per hour I am sure is having to type out some dumb thing this human just did, So I would say that 5 min to 10 min is spent on logging and tending the human that fell or freaked out.
⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Incident⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:
but with human interaction and a back and forth conversation. Also it seems that one friend of mine who has this option at the daycare they use in nashville the caregivers do have a one on one with the parent when picking up. So its not just weird, but also redundant.
⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Incident⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:
I would think that they dont stack a caregiver that hard with infants and full on running 2+ year olds. But I still would rather them just spend a few min talking to me then having to log shit.
⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Incident⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:
And that seems reasonable, those are the ones that would need the most physical intervention (like helping them stay upright).
⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Incident⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:
that is the classes one, these are caregivers not teachers. I was referring to childcare.gov/…/supervision-ratios-and-group-size…
⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Incident⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:
I would think that in itself is a problem. mgmt should be able to and understand the caregivers.
⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Incident⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:
yeah cutting out talking to the caregivers of my child is the first thing I would cut.
⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Incident⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:
thats so fucked.
⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Incident⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:
with that person, no, but you can get all the info out to the parent and have an actual conversation with the people that care for your child. Like I said mgmt would be able to grab those children that need watching with those care givers talking to parents. The idea you think this is the better option is my issue. Its just parents who wanna look for others to blame yet they wouldnt spend 5 min a day to talk to the person they leave the child with.
⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Incident⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:
If they are panicking while the child is being picked up and dropped off that kind of environment might not be for them. Also the idea that you think that you interacting with the care giver/parent is a time sink is the reason why I think its dystopian, I would want them to be in full care giver mode at all times and not have to switch to logging corp slave for the few min an hour. I am sure that dumb shit is taxing on them and its just a thing for parents that will require it (god forbid those same parents actually spend any time with those people or look for other things in their childs environment that could help that need this kind of logging. ).
⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Incident⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:
you would think they would have all these other workers that can cover while you talk to the parent. Also I would assume that mgmt is out and about more to help at drop off and pickup.
⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Incident⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:
Not even close to right, fed says it can be 10:1 no more then 16:1 sooo that is still minutes out of each hour. And that is if everything is running smooth and children are anything but smooth. And I am speaking up because again I think its dystopian, I would rather the person in charge of my child TALK TO ME, and we can learn what to expect and want from the relationship then them sitting on phones or tablets logging every last thing my child did. And I must point out that your math is bad, 7x5 isnt 30. If you need precision in your childcare you should strive for it in yourself.
⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Incident⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:
SOOO if the educator was, I dont know, forced to talk to them at pick up over the things of the day they could be more looped in to what the parents want and maybe better understand the groups role and abilities for their child. No you are right, this is better.
⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Incident⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:
And over how many children? So 30 kids 5 seconds each (lets hope they just have to click a button and not add fucking notes to each one) so like 5 min an hour just logging shit they could spend with the parent when they pick them up. God forbid its a real winner of a day and every other child is just walking into walls and tripping all over the place. I am sure they need this dumb shit added to their workload.
⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Incident⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:
yeah but you are pulling their attention for that, logging that is time they are not dealing with children.
⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Incident⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:
came here to say just this, just seeing a feed of your childs interactions at another space is fucking weird. Why goto this logging level? Isnt it just good enough of, yeah they napped well today, and they hit there head, it scared them but we got them calmed and an ice pack just in case.

I feel like this is what helicopter parenting but they have to work so this is what they want and they need to calm down, they dont even monitor the indoor air at this level and that has been shown to be a big contributor of poor mental performance then just being at day care with sun and playing with others.
⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon thinks about statistics⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:
While I love that they are doing the reading and thinking ahead. But they would have to find someone that would even be willing to start any of the process to maybe make one of these ‘issues’.
⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨‘Zelensky Is the Devil’: Second Day of Protests Intensify in Ukraine for Independent Anti-Corruption Agencies – Foreign Allies Start to Turn on Kiev Regime’s Leader⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:
I dont think he is the devil, I dont think he is that religious. But this oversight and corruption laws (or lacking of what was there) is not ok.
⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Capitalism rules⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:
seems odd saying that in the same place that has to subsidize the farmers.
⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨I'm going with the third one⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:
thank you came to say this.
⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨His last pickup rolled over.⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:
I always wondered if a can of soda would fit into one of those.
⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Calm down⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:
I think you are right I think a lot of men just have a snapping line, where they will bottle it all up till they pop and if they would have just not bottled they could have been spun down a bit.
⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Calm down⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:
you know I think its all the knight bullshit a lot of males feel. Like hey man calm down this shit isnt worth it, but at the same time its only the bigger then you guys that will say it as the ones the same size are like man I dont wanna get punched or become the focus. But this is just a hot take on the idea.
⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Calm down⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:
I wonder if that would work, like you just start getting mad at them for how half hearted they are about the whole thing. Start saying ‘if you are only going to be 10% tough about this shit you should just sit down’
⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Calm down⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:
Thats not fair at all, you ever see a dude wanting to fight and you tell him to calm down. I think telling pissed people to cool out just fires them up.