FatTony
@FatTony@lemm.ee
- Comment on Where is the line between being yourself and trying to change? 3 days ago:
Safe from what?
Safe from making someone uncomfortable?
And who says it’s important?
According to folks over at my previous posts. (Though they also emphasised communication)
- Comment on Where is the line between being yourself and trying to change? 3 days ago:
I think, I’m somewhere in the middle of all that. I’m fine with flirting, I’m more or less indifferent about it. But if it wasn’t as important as people say it is, I don’t think I would do it, just to be safe.
- Submitted 3 days ago to [deleted] | 8 comments
- Comment on How important is flirting within the dating scene? 4 days ago:
But I’m not in a relationship?
- Comment on How do you express romantic interest in someone? 4 days ago:
Thank you! That was very thorough and clear.
- Submitted 5 days ago to [deleted] | 16 comments
- Comment on How important is flirting within the dating scene? 5 days ago:
Of course you still need to find a way to show interest
Dumb question maybe. But do you have any tips on how to do that?
- Comment on How important is flirting within the dating scene? 5 days ago:
Damn, that’s without a doubt a perfect synopsis of what’s going on here. Seriously, I’m impressed.
“What difference would the answer make?”
If the answer is: “Yes, it’s very important.” Then I know what to improve. If the answer is something along the lines of: “The important part is the connection between the two parties.” Then I don’t know what to do, to be honest.
- Comment on How important is flirting within the dating scene? 5 days ago:
Romantic/sexual banter?
- Comment on How important is flirting within the dating scene? 6 days ago:
I get the whole “Just the be yourself” message. But right now things just aren’t moving. Like, at all. And I do have plenty of hobbies. Even meeting women is genuinely not a problem for me. So I’m kind of stuck between the being myself and changing strategies. To be honest with you. If being myself means I don’t ever find someone, which over the years have quite clearly proven to be the case. Then I say: “Fuck being myself.”
- Comment on How important is flirting within the dating scene? 6 days ago:
And I usually don’t have any ulterior motives.
Well I for one usually do have said ulterior motives (I want to see them romantically). Shouldn’t I then be a bit more (flirtatiously) direct with them?
- Comment on How important is flirting within the dating scene? 6 days ago:
- Comment on How important is flirting within the dating scene? 6 days ago:
“Hey, I really enjoyed that conversation, let’s meet for a coffee some day, how can I text you?”
But if I sign it off like this. That would be a pretty clear subliminal message, right?
- Comment on How important is flirting within the dating scene? 6 days ago:
If you say “Hey, I really enjoyed that conversation, let’s meet for a coffee some day, how can I text you?”
When given chance, this is basically the way I go about it. Just a quick on-the-side question: How quickly do you usually suggest something like that?
And bordering on what I’d call flirting.
What would you call flirting?
- Comment on How important is flirting within the dating scene? 6 days ago:
I am not a great active flirter, but I do know that my words and body language will do the heavy lifting, unconsciously.
Perhaps you’re in the same boat?
I would say, yes. However, it has been somewhat of a fruitless endeavour for me. (rightly or wrongly so)
- Comment on How important is flirting within the dating scene? 6 days ago:
But how are they supposed to find out if it’s just a nice conversation, or if I want to meet them again, or if I want to go on a date with them? If I’m having a friendly chat with someone and I suggest we meet again in a different setting, wouldn’t that be a clear enough sign?
- Comment on How important is flirting within the dating scene? 6 days ago:
Flirting is part of the process
Okay and how big (would you say) is that part?
It’s also a pretty broad term.
Would you say that talking amicably, counts as flirting?
- Submitted 6 days ago to [deleted] | 55 comments
- Comment on Wanna play a game? (please don't call osha) 1 month ago:
I thought the half full, half empty thing. Was about the flow of water. If you’re emptying the glass, at some point the glass will be half empty. If you fill the glass, at one point the glass will be half full.
- Comment on Fuck it, we're doing eggs this.weekend. Behold: Scotch eggs. 2 months ago:
They harder they are, the better they fit.
- Comment on try fingers but hole 7 months ago:
What’s the meme here? I’m lost.
- Comment on Anon pirates a game 8 months ago:
It was this browser. Typical spyware stuff for the time. For some reason I always managed to get it on my computer when I was younger.
- Comment on Anon tries to be a different person 8 months ago:
Thank you for your fucking service.
- Comment on Anon pirates a game 8 months ago:
Anyone here remember “The Sweet Page”?
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- Comment on i hate this meme 9 months ago:
Yeah, I think I get it now :D
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