Comment on How do you gently tell someone you only want to keep seeing them if it's on a dating level?
FatTony@lemm.ee 3 weeks ago“that’s all fine but I genuinely begin to develop feelings for her” and “I just don’t really care all that much for a friendship”.
Okay I may have not worded it very well there. What I mean is that I don’t want to be in this “friendzone” any more. I really don’t and I don’t see myself being happy remaining as such.
Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
So, if she won’t give herself to you, you can stop wasting your time on her and find someone else to hang around and obsess over?
I recognize this behavior, because I used to do it. Spoiler: it doesn’t work.
Go meet more people, stop treating women differently from men, and remember: getting laid won’t happen until you stop forcing it.
FatTony@lemm.ee 3 weeks ago
I don’t think it’s wise to treat people you’re romantically interested the exact same you would any other person. That’s how I got into this mess, to be honest. I actually feel like if I were more upfront about it I now wouldn’t be asking here.
True and I never have otherwise. But you should absolutely treat people you like differently.