I need to change careers but I’m scared. If you ever did this, how did you power through and didn’t feel like a loser for wasting time?

Submitted ⁨⁨17⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago⁩ by ⁨bluestable351@programming.dev⁩ to ⁨[deleted]⁩

I’m a German nurse unhappy with nursing and I’m in my 40s.

I wrote I need because my current job as a nurse is physically extremely demanding and I know I don’t want to do this till I retire. My life cannot be to hope to advance in this field by moving up to a position within the hospital where I don’t actually have to work bedside. In Germany nurses don’t need a bachelor to practice, they only need an apprenticeship (Ausbildung).

Something I always liked as a child is music, either the classical guitar or the piano, so I talked to 2 professors, one for piano, the other one for classical and electric guitar. There is no question that east Asians dominate the piano market, they are insanely good and securing a spot in a piano bachelor would be very difficult, but a bachelor of classical and electric guitar is not as looked after like the piano, which could be my way to do something I enjoy, earn more than now with regular, predictable working hours, small groups of students when I finish the bachelor and stop doing something that’s physically destroying me.

About job options after I finish the bachelor, the professor I talked to, a classical guitarist with several prizes I’m not naming said that nowadays all kinds of music teachers are retiring and he constantly gets calls asking for new guitar teachers, that all his students who finish the bachelor have contracts even before finishing the bachelor and the figures he offered regarding salaries are higher than what I earn now, because I’d have a bachelor.

Now I don’t know if this professor is overselling his program, but this is a renowned music school in a city next to mine, which means its close, I wouldn’t have to move and the bachelor would cost me nothing but 100 Euros per semester, provided I prepare for a year for the admission exam, checking my progress every 3 months with this professor, something this musical school offers free of charge and actually passing the exam.

I don’t believe this professor was lying: salary figures I checked match what he said and he proposed I prepare for the exam, check with him my progress and if I get admitted, study for a year to see if I like it, because I can always use my apprenticeship as a nurse to work nursing, radiology instead of bedside nursing or work for a healthcare insurance company. If I do this I’d work part time during the bachelor.

I’ve been playing the classical guitar for the last 8 years if that helps and I learned musical theory and piano as a child.

The other option would be to study a bachelor of science and become a physician assistant, but to do this on a respectable public university and not with a private, online diploma mill that only wants my money I’d have to relocate, which is something very risky (new city, new hospital, no social contacts), or pay for a second flat for 4 years, which would be expensive. The medical side of nursing has always interested me and I enjoy explaining organs to patients, and I’m not ready to simply ignore the last 7 years of my life, the time I’ve been working as a nurse, but bedside, as said, is killing me, but relocating 3 hours away for 4 years…

I’m split. Both paths offer a way out of my current situation. I wouldn’t mind working as a guitar teacher for the rest of my life, nor would I mind working as a physician assistant.

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otacon239@lemmy.world ⁨17⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
I can’t relate on the career directly, but I went from call center tech support to manufacturing and it was the best decision I ever made. I knew the job I was in would simply never bring a day of joy to me and money doesn’t do much for that.

The real answer is that you won’t know until you take a leap of faith. I was also terrified I was making a poor decision when I switched, but now I use far more of my skillset and I’m far more engaged as a result.

It may be a complete failure and you’ll have to switch again, but if you’re unsatisfied with what you’re doing, the only way to improve it is to make a change.

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Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world ⁨13⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
My dad worked for a machine shop for 30 years and got laid off because as he said “all the work went to China” This was happening all over the state, so they started a program for these guys to learn a new skill. So, my dad took the free money, in his 50s, and went to college. He got a social work degree, and a government job as a Case worker for mentally handicapped adults. He loved it and was so happy he got booted out of the tool shop.

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Venator@lemmy.nz ⁨15⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

nowadays all kinds of music teachers are retiring and he constantly gets calls asking for new guitar teachers

I’d be skeptical about continued opportunities, as there might just be more demand for recommendations from a professor from a renowned music school, and he’d probably be more likely to recommend recent graduates, so you’d only gain that advantage until the next semester class graduates. Unless it’s for jobs in schools as opposed to lessons after school or something?

salaries are higher than what I earn now

Is that for jobs in schools, or after school lessons? (After school lessons might have a higher hourly pay but less frequent work, so not actually a salary but more like a contractor?)

I enjoy explaining organs to patients, and I’m not ready to simply ignore the last 7 years of my life

Have you considered making songs that explain organs? Maybe it could go viral 😅

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vk6flab@lemmy.radio ⁨17⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
Ultimately only you can make the decision about what you want to do with your life.

One thing to consider is, what does failure look like? Not that I’m suggesting that you’d fail, rather, does this help you choose?

In other words, try to find things that distinguishes between the choices. Things that make them different.

You might also ask people already doing the things you’re choosing between. Perhaps you can ask them what they discovered that they liked or hated about their chosen profession.

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52fighters@lemmy.sdf.org ⁨12⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
How I would consider this decision would be very different depending if married with children or single. If single, even the greatest risk still isn’t too risky. But if you have a family to consider, then you do what’s responsible first.

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