A fine dining restaurant served a quadriplegic woman a desert that read "happy birthday wheelchair"

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• tal@lemmy.today ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

  If I had to make a bet, there’s some note about what dish is supposed to go to whom and the waiter let it merge into the note about what text was supposed to be there.

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  • Kowowow@lemmy.ca ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    Very much an autopilot mistake, not in food business but I’ve done almost exactly the same thing

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    • tal@lemmy.today ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

      There’s an infamous incident in the Battle of Leyte Gulf, near the end of World War II.

      en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_world_wonders

      The world wonders" is a phrase which rose to notoriety following[a] its use during World War II when it appeared as part of a decoded message sent by Fleet Admiral Chester Nimitz, Commander in Chief, U.S. Pacific Fleet, to Admiral William Halsey Jr. at the height of the Battle of Leyte Gulf on October 25, 1944.[2] The words, intended to be without meaning, were added as security padding in an encrypted message to hinder Japanese attempts at cryptanalysis, but were mistakenly included in the decoded text given to Halsey. Halsey interpreted the phrase as a harsh and sarcastic rebuke, and as a consequence dropped his futile pursuit of a decoy Japanese carrier task force, and, belatedly, reversed some of his ships in a fruitless effort to aid United States forces in the Battle off Samar.[3]

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      When Nimitz, at CINCPAC headquarters in Hawaii, saw Kinkaid’s plea for help he sent a message to Halsey, simply asking for the current location of Task Force 34, which due to a previous misunderstanding, was unclear:[7]

      Where is, repeat, where is Task Force Thirty Four?

      With the addition of metadata including routing and classification information, as well as the padding at the head and tail, the entire plaintext message to be encoded and transmitted to Halsey was:

      TURKEY TROTS TO WATER GG FROM CINCPAC ACTION COM THIRD FLEET INFO COMINCH CTF SEVENTY-SEVEN X WHERE IS RPT WHERE IS TASK FORCE THIRTY FOUR RR THE WORLD WONDERS[9]

      U.S. Navy procedure called for the padding to be added to the start and end of the message, which were vulnerable to cryptanalysis due to the use of common phrases and words (such as “Yours sincerely”) in those sections.[10] The words chosen for padding should have been obviously irrelevant to the actual message, but Nimitz’s enciphering clerk used a phrase that “[just] popped into my head”.[11] Historians note similarity to Lord Tennyson’s poem “The Charge of the Light Brigade” about the eponymous battle, which was also fought on October 25[12] (of 1854), as the poem twice contains the phrase “All the world wonder’d”.

      While decrypting and transcribing the message, Halsey’s radio officer properly removed the leading phrase, but the trailing phrase looked appropriate and he seems to have thought it was intended and so left it in before passing it on to Halsey,[2] who read it as:

      Where is, repeat, where is Task Force Thirty Four? The world wonders.

      The structure tagging (the 'RR’s) should have made clear that the phrase was in fact padding. In all the ships and stations that received the message, only the decoder on Halsey’s flagship, USS New Jersey, failed to delete both padding phrases.[13]

      The message (and its trailing padding) became infamous, and created some ill feeling, since it appeared to be a harsh criticism by Nimitz of Halsey’s decision to pursue the decoy carriers and leave the landings uncovered. “I was stunned as if I had been struck in the face”, Halsey later recalled. “The paper rattled in my hands, I snatched off my cap, threw it on the deck, and shouted something I am ashamed to remember”, letting out an anguished sob.[14] Rear Admiral Robert Carney, Halsey’s chief of staff (who had argued strongly in favor of pursuing the carriers), witnessed Halsey’s emotional outburst and reportedly grabbed him by the shoulders and shook him, shouting, “Stop it! What the hell’s the matter with you? Pull yourself together!” In Halsey’s recollection, he called it an “infernally plausible” message, saying “I was so mad I couldn’t talk. It was utterly impossible for me to believe that Chester Nimitz had sent me such an insult. He hadn’t, of course, but I didn’t know the truth for several weeks.”[15] Recognizing his failure, Halsey ordered his fleet south, however the chase north had exhausted the fuel of his light escorts and more time was wasted refueling while Taffy 3 (Task Unit 77.4.3, commanded by Rear Admiral Clifton Sprague) was fighting for its life. Halsey returned to Samar with his two fastest battleships, three light cruisers and eight destroyers, but he arrived too late to have any impact on the battle.[16]

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  • running_ragged@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    Not even. It wasn’t the same hand that wrote those letters.

    Maybe a server wrote it after the fact, or maybe the client did to get story and a free dinner.

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    • tal@lemmy.today ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

      Hmm. Could be.

      searches

      www.msn.com/en-us/…/ar-AA2aMzua

      A spokesperson for Blu On The Hudson sent CBS News New York the following statement:

      "We at Blu on the Hudson are aware of the recent video circulating on social media, and we are deeply saddened by what occurred. We sincerely apologize to the guest and to everyone who was hurt or offended by this incident which took place on June 20, 2026. Treating every guest with dignity, respect, and care is fundamental to who we are as a company.

      "We want to provide some context regarding what happened, not as an excuse, but to explain how this unfortunate mistake occurred.

      "Our standard operating procedure is to use table and seat numbers on tickets to identify where each dish should be delivered. In this instance, the word “wheelchair” was used as a reference to identify where a birthday dessert with a candle should be delivered. Unfortunately, that notation was misunderstood and was written on the plate itself. There was absolutely no malicious or disrespectful intent behind the notation. However, we fully understand how seeing that word written on a plate could be deeply hurtful and upsetting.

      "Since the incident, we have reinforced with our team the importance of following proper ticketing and communication procedures and have taken steps to ensure that something like this does not happen again. We have also made an attempt to reach the guest directly to personally apologize, although we have not yet been able to connect with them.

      "We understand that an apology cannot undo the hurt or frustration caused by this incident, but we sincerely hope it conveys how deeply sorry we are. Blu on the Hudson is proud to be a part of the Hudson County community, and we are committed to being a place where every guest feels welcomed, respected, and valued.

      “We are deeply sorry for this occurrence, have learned from it, and are committed to doing better moving forward.”

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• Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

  I saw a video on this yesterday.

  Yes, it’s shitty and I’d be mortified if I was involved in this in any way, but I think it was a very unfortunate misunderstanding.

  I think the other comment is on the right track. The most likely scenario is that the server typed in a note as to who the dessert was for, the plate decorator took it as what to write on the plate, and the expo just ran the food out to the table without knowing anything about what’s going on.

  Common sense should probably make you question if Wheelchair should really be on the plate like that, but maybe it isn’t uncommon for people to request light hearted jokes on these kinds of things. I know I could get away with doing something like that for one of my friends and it being appreciated as a good natured joke, but those are people I know well, not complete strangers.

  The restaurant has since acknowledged and apologized for the mistake.

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  • dontbelievethis@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    Completely unacceptable to write wheelchair on that. It should have read hot wheels. That would be flattering.

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  • bcgm3@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    Yeah, I’d have definitely sought a verbal confirmation on that one before sending it out.

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