If you don’t know, Keemstar was a 40-something-year-old man dating a 23–24-year-old woman. Trisha Paytas, a 37-year-old YouTuber, made a video calling Keemstar a predator and saying the age of consent should be 25. Now, I personally think calling Keemstar a “predator” or “pedo” is objectively false. If you want to say it’s gross, sure—but unless he met her when she was a minor, words like “grooming,” “predator,” and “pedo” have actual meanings.

What makes this even more confusing is that her husband is 48, and she brought up how he slept with a minor when he was an adult. He has also been accused of rape and called the victim a liar. On top of that, Trisha herself has flirted with and sexually harassed minors when she was an adult woman.

So, if we’re going by who’s worse, I’d say an older man being in a consensual relationship with a younger—but still adult—woman is better than an adult engaging in predatory behavior toward minors. Why did she do this? Her digital footprint is insane.