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• Corkyskog@sh.itjust.works ⁨7⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  I know some men who don’t care about sex much and would be fine with that arrangement. They are the kind of guys that aren’t out in the wild much, so finding one outside of apps will be hard.

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• MojoMcJojo@lemmy.world ⁨9⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  To me personally, sex is like singing together in harmony with your bodies.

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  • sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    As the saying goes:

    It takes two to tango.

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• kibiz0r@midwest.social ⁨9⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  For a majority of men, probably, but not an overwhelming majority. Which still leaves a ton of people you could be compatible with.

  Don’t overthink it and try to be something you’re not. Just take your time, get to know people, be curious and honest. Stay true to yourself. Don’t apologize and adapt just because you assume you have to.

  You’re not trying to date everyone, just the right one. So why bother with what the rest think?

  You’ll find someone that “just works” with who you already are. When you do, your dynamic with come naturally as a result of your unique relationship, and it won’t be precisely the same as any timeshare sex model you might have tried to plan ahead on Lemmy.

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• Wren@lemmy.today ⁨5⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  I cycle between high and low/no sex drive.

  Open relationships work best for me. I know it’s not for everyone, but I support my partners sharing a sexual relationship with someone else while keeping a romantic one going with me, rather than fuck just to keep them happy. Sex without desire rarely makes anyone happy.

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• theneverfox@pawb.social ⁨5⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  Relationships are like a ying yang. The people have to fit together

  There’s people out there into that. Find one of them, not someone who will settle for that arrangement

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• MonkderVierte@lemmy.zip ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  I think that’s up to the individual.

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• sopularity_fax@sopuli.xyz ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  How do ace folks feel about orgasms? Like, isnt that enjoyable for anyone?

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  • Witchfire@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    They’re meh at best. My ADHD rarely lets me enjoy them

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    • sopularity_fax@sopuli.xyz ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Huh? Even with a decent ahem vibe?

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• wampus@lemmy.ca ⁨8⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  For me personally, yeah, it wouldn’t work. As others noted, it needs to be reciprocal attraction for sex to really feel good / get you that endorphin hit. Based on the number of replies noting it, it seems fair to say that men’s needs aren’t just a matter having an orgasm.

  Prolly better off looking for an asexual guy to partner with.

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