Comment on Anon trying understanding women
Cracks_InTheWalls@sh.itjust.works 1 week agoIt recontextualizes things a bit - this is not purely a function of vetting, but places him in a different (smaller) category than he was in previously on the app.
JokeDeity@lemm.ee 1 week ago
Tomato tamato. You end up in the same place and the journey looks the same.
Cracks_InTheWalls@sh.itjust.works 1 week ago
I disagree - it’s the difference between a “lol, women only become interested when you’re not available anymore” trope v. “You were a single dude in a sea of single dudes, now you’re attached and in a smaller pool of nonmonogomous dudes. Pool is smaller, so more bites”.
Or this was entirely clear in the other post if reading between the lines, and I’m just very tired.
sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 1 week ago
It’s not, and I found your contribution helpful.